Sally - sorry to hear about the split. But if he's this way, you're better off without him. I know its hard now...you're such a strong woman xx

Catherine - just ring centerlink, they will help you with everything you need. You will probably not be able to do much until you or him move out, as its very hard to prove that you are not together while living under the same roof. My parents when they split lived in the same house for over a year, and they went through hell trying to prove that they werent together, they just both wanted to be aroundt he kids full time. You can only call, 136150 is the family assistance hotline...