hmmm as for signing his rights away
I'm not sure if this is accurate at all
i should probably check it out further for myself but anyway
i was told that
because my daughters 'sperm donor'
left before she was born
has said many times he does not want her or anything to do with her
and because he is not listed on her birth cert and does not pay child support.
it means that he legally has no rights to her anyway.
i dont need his signature on any legal document
the only way he could have a say in her life is
to go to court
which i dont see them doing.. as a judge will ask them where the hell they have been for x amount of time.. they will be ordered to pay x amount of child support and quite likely back payment child support...which is something they both seem to really not want to have to do.
signing away his paternal rights might come back to bite you.. so i am told
one day you might want him to pay for something to do with her
school fees.. medical.. child support ect and if he has signed away his paternal rights
you cant get any kind of money from him.
i was also told that it could affect inheritence for her if he was to pass away.
i dunno if that is true or not
but it was what i was told.. so i thought i would pass it on
I know that you are angry, ****ed off and hurt
i completely understand that
our ex's sound very similar
and still after 2 years i could beat the crap out of ex and probably enjoy it
just please hang in there hun
i dont understand why they behave like this
why they seem to just go out of their way to be an a$$hole.
you are really better off without him
and i hope that when all of this is over you and your baby can have a peaceful happy life together.
cause you and your bub deserve to have a happy and peaceful life.