so let me get this right
you are saying
even though
my daughter's father left before she was born
has never ever acknowleged her..told all of his family to have nothing to do with her
which they have done.
has never paid a cent for her
and i dont think he even knows her name or date of birth
he could come waltzing into the picture in a year or 5 years from now
and say 'i want to be a part of my kids life
even though to my child i am a total and utter stranger'
and the court will more than likely allow it?
and force this child to spend time with someone who is a complete stranger to them..
who never sent a birthday card,, never a phone call
and who has never even laid eyes on his own kid
that just does not seem right