I'm glad somebody shares my anger about these men inparticular. His family will stand up for him. I fell for him because he treated my older boy's great and we had so much in common we spent every minute together when he was home from work. I felt worth something again and enjoyed the attention of a male which i thought i would never get. Stupid me fell for it hook line and sinker.

I am avoiding men till i have got my life on track and raised my kids. I will never fall for it again. He not only hurt me but my two boys who still ask where he is. I don't know how to explain things to them they will see him again when the bub is born and wonder where he has been and why he has only come back for the new baby, hope it doesn't make them get to jealous of bubba. Got any hints on how to explain this to a 2 and 4 year old. This will continue to hurt them and for that a hate what he has done. I was lead to believe my life was going to be happy and heading forward.