I do see what he is doing but i don't want to instill in any of my kids my hate for this man and i do realise the importance of know your real father. If only he would work with me on this and stop thinking about himself. At this point in time the only things i know about his where a bouts is his mobile number and an email address he tells me nothing about his life only what he is going to do to mine. I will be confident when i have seen my solicitor she is so busy my next appointment is 4th of sept so i'll let you all know how i go. So for now i fear him.
Can you get an AVO against him. It would send a strong message that you wont take things lying down. I take my hat off to you and the way you are handling this.
I'd feel pretty ripped off too Miranda.....and I'll be doing the same as you, concentrating on the kids for a while first. I really think differently about things now, I've managed to not be soooooo p1ssed about how things have turned out and am on the move forward again
Thanks again i'm not as down as i used to be learning how to laugh it off. I was going to do the AVO but it would make it harder for him to be around me for the supervised visits. I'm just waiting on using all the stuff i have been collecting against him. I will not backdown if he does get it to court.
thats awesome miranda
i hope everything goes as well for you as it has ended up for me, you deserve it!
thats great to hear that you're feeling better now
remember you'll always have all of us here at BB waiting to talk to you, console you, give you advice, make you laugh, listen to you, and if needed - wait for him in the back of an alley to teach him a lesson!
all the best
keep us posted on your journey with or without the w@nker
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