have you asked him to still come and spend time with the boys? if he refuses, thats another thing you can use against him! he will look very irresponsible and self-centred if he is unwilling to keep the relationship with your boys... cause really, its all about the children... and if a judge is not sure whether he will always put his children first then he will never get anything more than a kick in the a$$

but your plan is pretty flawless and i'm with lulu2, no court will disagree with a fair plan like that...
you've got nothing to worry about girl, just keep telling yourself that you're a good mother, and start looking forward to this bub being born! you're 28 weeks pregnant remember!! start paying more attention to yourself and spend less time worrying (cause you have nothing to worry about!). i know its hard cause of all the hormones and everything, but u gotta try!

when i was pregnant with DS, the whole time i was worrying so much about what XP was doing, if he was plotting to take bub, if he got a lawyer and was planning to take me to court, if he would ever leave me alone... it eventually dug me into a hole so deep that i had a breakdown while pregnant and couldnt go to work for a week, and was very very close to having post-natal depression... so remember to think positive, it takes a lot of guts to start thinking about yourself only, BE SELFISH!

everything will be ok