hi sossigirl,
thankyou for your reply. At the moment he is not in a place to really ask me to go with him. Its something he wants to experience on his own. I'm not really sure what the future holds for us but its hard to say because somethimes communicating with him is like doing so with a 15 year old. he is kind of in the state of mind where he doesnt feel ready to commit hes a big kid who wants to play the field and have a bit of fun for a bit. I would consider perth but im not going to push myself on him, if it happens it happens i just have to wait and see if he grows up a bit.