thanks hun, its nice to have a different opinion to ponder. Your right, I LOVED the way Sunday Night Guy made me feel so great about myself, and I love the strength that I have found in myself since being single.

Hanging out with XH these last few days I just keep seeing the things that I dislike about him, things like his arogance. Things like when a person serves him in a shop, he treats them like they are less of a person tan him, I will ask them how they are and look them in the eye and treat them like any one else, whereas XH wont really give them the time of day generally. Little things like that actually make me feel embarassed to be with him. And the way he gets so stressed at times over the smallest inconsequential things.

Here is something about him as an example of wht irks me: he is renting a house and all but one of the lights in the kitchen are bowna nd have been for some time. I ws cooking in the kitchen last night and mentioned to him that its about time he replaced the globes. He said he would not replace the globes cause you can only by the expensive flourescent ones now and the ones that were in the lights before were only the cheap ones. I told him that he has to replace all the globes when he leaves any way, he said he wont be replacing them cause its not fair as they were only cheap ones and he will have to buy expensive ones.....he is on a huge amount of money a year, what does it mattter?!

These are the little things that I just dont know if i want to live with for the rest of my life...