I agree with your comments been there myself.

I think it can be just as bad on both sides of the fence in my situation....

XP's don't pay for their kids and then your new partner is grilled by his XW constantly and eventually makes the kids have no contact..

Shoe is on the other foot in our situation she has everything house, overseas hols etc where DH and I can't afford a holiday or a house....

I agree with your comments been there myself.

CSA is just a joke and dosen't offer my DP a chance at a new life becuase we don't believe in their photocopying of information to be passed to the other side. Don't mind if CSA get it ... Centerlink has it no probs at all but to hand the sensitive information over to his XW NO WAY.......

In our situation it S#@! either way..

Frustrating.....