Ok, so the other day I got back from visiting my mum (for DD1's 2nd birthday) and he calls me to ask if we can talk. "Sure, come over" I say and he pretty much begged to be allowed back home.
Then the next morning he left saying he needed to think and didn't think that it would work out after all.
Then he comes back and says he's here to stay and he wants to work on our relationship.
But... he didn't want to give me back my rings ("Lets wait for a special time").
He didn't unpack his bags, just used things as he needed them.
He wouldn't commit to plans for the future.
He decided that he is joining the police force asap and does not care anymore about being able to buy a house in 18months time.
He didn't want me to touch him after that first night.

So...I told him I wasn't happy and maybe we could have a talk about our expectations and what we can do to make each other happy.

His response "I came back too soon, I am still too hurt to give you the relationship you want and need so I will be leaving again".

And, he is gone!!