I started out packing everything for him (as I had guilt about leaving him and wanted to make it easier) then I explained to him his child deserves better than to live out of a suitcase! I had to bug him for weeks but his mum solved the problem by getting bundles of high quality clothes off eBay shipped to his apartment in her size most seasons. I don't really care where he gets her clothes from as long as she doesn't look like a hobo. He's promised to napisan them all I've given him a full school uniform and sports uniform, ( seeing as he pays for half her uniforms AND I get school kids bonus, he's not the brightest spark to offer that but I'll take it where I can get it) he buys her sneakers for sports day and she wears her quality black school shoes I buy her and he makes sure she's wearing the same outfit Monday when I pick her up, that she was wearing when he got her the previous Thursday. (He has her 4 days a fortnight.)