okay, so half hour after my last post, DH comes back and says "Im selling my car" I can not believe this! He would absolutely never have considered this ever before, he has grown up!!! He advertised his car on the net tonight. Thing is it was costing us $350 every fortnight just for the car payment!! Then theres the petrol, rego and stuff. So now we are just gonna have my Mitsubishi Mirage 2 door car for the next few years while we get on top of debt.

This is exactly what he needed to do for me to believe things really are going to change. I have a new respect for him now, he has just proved to me that he really is putting us first.

BC - thankyou so much for your supportive post, it means so much to me x