kelebek - I agree with everything you have said. He has agreed with all my savings plans and dont worry, there is absolutely no way I will have another baby with him any time soon, Im off to get Mirena IUD put in next month, so that will make me baby fre for the next 5 years. As for needing a second car, no we can get by just fine with the one car.

lulu - yep, thankyou, I agree x