No court orders in place Maz.

Until she got her new BF it was no problem us seeing the kids, then he came on the scene and that was the end of that.

It is at least reassuring that DH's mum still keeps in contact with the kids - thats one thing. But she doesn't tell us when she see's them or speaks to them - another condition the ex put on her having contact with them, that DH and I don't find out about it .