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Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009
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morning!
I will be the first to start this thread off,i'm getting impatient waiting my temp is still rising and i'm am getting lower pulling very slight crampy feeling in my lower abdo i still have 7 days until i can test but i'm wondering am i,is it,could i be (I AM GOING NUT'S WAITING)
I have to take boy's to school then get ready for work i will check in on everyone tonight when i get home.
Last edited by Tanya; May 19th, 2009 at 09:37 AM.
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Ferrals4-Were crazy togethe sista cat!!
I have no idea, ive been a bit moody and had slight cramps and nausea but RB (thankfully) hasnt come just yet. Im hoping for OUR bfp's! Not feeling confident though, just feel like it wont happen. I know im just being impatient, but last night I dreamt that I had a daughter (2 daughter dreams now!) and cried when I held her. It was a warm fuzzy dream and I felt good after it, but feel a sense of emptiness still
Im considering doing a test, not sure about the disappointment that follows that BFN though.......
See, told you, im as crazy as a coconut!
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Hi ladies
Sparkles Thank you so much for that info! Im keeping my everything crossed, I got notification of possible implantation on CD21 and triphasic temps today im so excited!! I didnt have this with my last pregnancy cycle though I was temping orally so my temps were scattered (I have them both on my home page if you want to see)
I am going nuts aswell. I tested this morning and bfn, but didnt get positive till 13dpo last time and that was in the pm but thats the earliest i tested too so dunno...
for us all I say!
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Ferrals, Sunny and Coco - I have fingers and toes and everything crossed for you all.
Hello and good luck to everyone else, I can't remember who was who and who was where because it is on the other thread LOL.
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So I tested.......................................
BFN!
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Morning ladies.
Well today is a week since my miscarriage, and to be honest, i feel so lost, i have kind of delt with it, but im still so sad.
Its hard to describe, i just feel lost....
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Anila, you're in the right place. Time never takes away the pain, it only helps us to cope better with it each day. I hope your spirits lift soon.
xo
Bugger!!!!
I had to have a quick peek before i walk out the door for work i will be late but this thread is so addictive.
Sunny09-don't panic it might be to early i have everything crossed for you.
Coco1411- same as abve (lol) it might be a bit early i am crossing everything for you aswell.
Milly5- Thank's i'm hopeful it has worked this month i will be devo if it has'nt.
Anila- hang in there it will get easier i know you hear it all the time but i thought i would never feel better after i lost my beautiful girl and i promise you it doe's get easier as time go's by.
OMG look at the time i have to go i'm late (lucky my mum is the duty manager)
talk to you all tonight.
Last edited by Tanya; May 19th, 2009 at 09:38 AM.
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Well it looks like the TTC after the EP and methotrexate shots will be delayed again. We were going to start in the next month or so but Dh is going to be going for surgery for a brain tumour that he has been dealing with for 12 years. It isn't cancerous and it is something we knew would have to be done but it puts TTC as a lower priority. I was thinking that we might try beore his surgery in July but having gone through an EP I am already do scared of it happening again that if it did I think life might be ub=nbearably stressful. It would have been nice to be expecting to give us a special joy through this yucky time. Well all I will focus on now will be my DH and keeping his stress levels low. Anyway I hope you all have great success and I will be lurking for the next bit as that is all I can do
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Anila, you're in the right place. Time never takes away the pain, it only helps us to cope better with it each day. I hope your spirits lift soon.
xoThank you sunny and ferrals, it all just seems so different to when i had my first angel, it wasnt spoken about, it was like tabo, iykwim, i was 21, my partner was cheating on me, i had to move back in with my parents, i didnt have any other kids, and i felt alone.
This time i do have a hubby that loves me, i do have 5 beautiful children, im almost 32, and i have the bb girls to help get me through this, but i still feel lost, i just need hubby to give me a time frame, i suppose then i wont be so much in limbo.
I know it will eventually get easier, and it only seems hard now as it is still so fresh.
Well it looks like the TTC after the EP and methotrexate shots will be delayed again. We were going to start in the next month or so but Dh is going to be going for surgery for a brain tumour that he has been dealing with for 12 years. It isn't cancerous and it is something we knew would have to be done but it puts TTC as a lower priority. I was thinking that we might try beore his surgery in July but having gone through an EP I am already do scared of it happening again that if it did I think life might be ub=nbearably stressful. It would have been nice to be expecting to give us a special joy through this yucky time. Well all I will focus on now will be my DH and keeping his stress levels low. Anyway I hope you all have great success and I will be lurking for the next bit as that is all I can do
Best of luck with everything teme, i really do hope that very soon, u will be able to have your sticky bubba in your arms.
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I checked my cm b4 and It is the lightest of pink/brown...so im expecting spotting tomorrow and a temp drop and af on sat/sun....
Im so tired of all of this, and one of the things i hate most is the thought of it being another long arduous month until we can see if we have gotten there again...
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hang in there coco, the fat lady has yet to sing!
we need to start chanting again!
NO RB! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!! NO RB!!
Im feeling low (must be in the air). Got the BFN earlier with a sensitive test. Although my face hasnt broken out yet im just waiting for the dreaded with to arrive. I think this is going to be a difficult AF to deal with emotionally.
Ive shut up now...................................
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Why cant having a baby be easier for those that want them so much? My thougths are with a certain beautiful lady out there going through a terrible time. I hope you get good news next week. I hope I get good news next week. I hope everyone gets good bloody news! For crying out loud Mother Nature cut some of us some slack!!
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I'm still resisting testing, I'd day 7 I'm holding on for my BT on the 25th.
Coco I agrea no fat lady yet
Anila, you sound so possitive (can you send some my way)
Ferrals, your funny. Hope you didn't get a mum talk..... lol
Bit of an update, felt sick Tuesday night till Wednesday Arvo, Then Wednesday Night Till around 1.30pm today. another good sign I guess.
Does anyone know anything about estrogen pills, I missed my lunch time pill took them at 5.30.....is this still ok? I'm on two pills morning noon and night.
Feeling pretty good today all in the hands of a higher power I guess.
I was horrified when i got home DH has taken the lap top to work and the kids desk top is slowwwwwwwwwwwwww so i had to beg my middle son to use his lap top to see what i have missed while i was at work.
teme-sorry to hear hubby is not well but you have to do what is best for you both your baby will come when you both are ready to TTC again good luck.
Anila- i had a m/c when i was 25 after i had my three boy's and it was'nt spoken about either people just said you have three boy's already you can't afford another one but when i lost abbi because it was at almost 20 weeks and i had to go through labour and give birth my family and friends were heart broken but the pain is the same as the baby was growing inside us and was loved and wanted from the moment we know they are there.
Coco1411- have you ever spotted while pregnant before could it be possible i never spot but i know people who do.
Sunny09-no RB yet your still in there with a chance.
When i got home today on my bed was a beautiful teddy bear with my daughters name and date of birth with beautiful girl embroided on the foot it was a mothers day gift my DH had ordered on line for me as this mothers day i did'nt want to celebrate so it arrived today i cried for how sweet he is and how much i love him and i cried for i want my daughter back and i feel i gave up on her and i hope she forgives me the day we meet up in heaven i can't cuddle my daughter but i can cuddle the teddy bear i still can't believe it happened to me someone pinch me so i can wake up.
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hmm, dont know about positive, but i suppose im just trying to not let it bring me down, i still have 5 kids that need me, or more like rely on me to hold it together.
Ill keep my fingers crossed for sticky healthy bubbas.
I had some sad news today, my cousin, who was 2 weeks ahead of me in her pregnancy, and who came to be with me when i had lost my bubba, just had an ultra sound today, and her baby had passed over the weekend. She was about 9 weeks, and had a heart beat, this would have been baby #4 for her.
So im so very sad for, she said, just like me, she knew it was over.
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oh ferrals, im so sorry hun, im giving u a cyber hug, i dont know what else to say.
I think the teddy sounds so beautiful.
Sometimes i think im being silly over 6 weeks, when some have been, through so much worse.
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