Why cant having a baby be easier for those that want them so much? My thougths are with a certain beautiful lady out there going through a terrible time. I hope you get good news next week. I hope I get good news next week. I hope everyone gets good bloody news! For crying out loud Mother Nature cut some of us some slack!!
Sunny so sorry but it is only early days.
I'm still resisting testing, I'd day 7 I'm holding on for my BT on the 25th.
Coco I agrea no fat lady yet
Anila, you sound so possitive (can you send some my way)
Ferrals, your funny. Hope you didn't get a mum talk..... lol
Bit of an update, felt sick Tuesday night till Wednesday Arvo, Then Wednesday Night Till around 1.30pm today. another good sign I guess.
Does anyone know anything about estrogen pills, I missed my lunch time pill took them at 5.30..... is this still ok? I'm on two pills morning noon and night.
Feeling pretty good today all in the hands of a higher power I guess.
hmm, dont know about positive, but i suppose im just trying to not let it bring me down, i still have 5 kids that need me, or more like rely on me to hold it together.
Ill keep my fingers crossed for sticky healthy bubbas.
I had some sad news today, my cousin, who was 2 weeks ahead of me in her pregnancy, and who came to be with me when i had lost my bubba, just had an ultra sound today, and her baby had passed over the weekend. She was about 9 weeks, and had a heart beat, this would have been baby #4 for her.
So im so very sad for, she said, just like me, she knew it was over.
So much happens in such a short time but I'm sad to see no BFPs posted...
Uni calls but I'm having a hard time concentrating on anything. Decided to search for part time work. I guess I'm kind of hoping that will occupy my brain somewhat. Here's hoping huh... I feel ok about the MC, now I'm just tired of always waiting. Waiting to try, waiting to test, waiting waiting waiting. Sometimes I think I should just quit with all the waiting and forget about wanting a baby. Perhaps that would make it all happen quicker and without any depression and disappointment.
Sunbeam - (think it was sunbeam...) welcome and I hope things work out for you quickly. I MC easter weekend. Slowly getting back on track...
Well i couldn't help it i had to test it's 2 or 3 days early but i brought one of thoses test before your due date tests well i got a BFN so i think i'm out of the game this month if RB dosn't turn up by friday i will test again i am now miserable, cranky and sad.
Hi Girls
I'm not sure what happened i wrote a post yeaterday but it never showed up, maybe I did something wrong
Mostly I was just going on about how sad I was so that's okay because I'm feeling better today after counselling yesterday.
Ferrals4- Congratulations on getteing the house sounds awesome. Hope you get a BFP later this weeks so you have a good excuse not to do too much in the move. Don't give up hope my friend did not get a BFP until she was 6 weeks pregnant, no one could explain why.
Milly5- Thanks for the welcome, strange how similar our situation is. Lets hope we can be belly buddies together with BFPs soon. Do you chart because my temps are really confusing me?
Temp still up at 36.9 so not bothering with OPks for now.
Got to go to work now, yuck.
Hi Everyone,
I am still around.
I just needed to take a break from it all for a while and build up some strength on my own.
I am not sure if I posted this I am sure I didn't.....
OK..... Bleeding and pain from a bleeding cyst on my ovary from the clomid folicle..so no clomid this cycle or temping. Can still have a go naturally this month and we sort of are but we are not going into it ( BD ) this month like we have before..
I think I o'd today?? got the whole pain thin ghappenning and I did a OPK test yesterday and it was my first really clear straight away positive, had EWM the night before and BD..... any how it has taken me sooooo long to read everyones post and catch up I dare not do persies at the moment lol!!!
take care
Em
Sounds like you're ovulating or have ovulated! WOO HOO!!
We're all still here lol Im sure it will happen for at least ONE of us soon but sheesh!
I am with you, not keen to be "trying" if it doesnt happen this month. Im waiting to see the gyno on june 22nd because first thing she'll ask is "have you been charting?" so may aswell keep doing it until I see her!
I thought we were pg last month with the bd timing, the progesterone being high and a triphasic chart...eveything was text book then I see light browish *i had to squint* spotting. :| grrr..
Smallfry- I am also doing uni, and I can SO relate the 'not being able to concentrate thing!!'
Ferrals - I got a BFN 2 days before AF due even with an early test. It wasn't until the day after AF due that I got the BFP. As they say, it's not over till the fat lady sings!!
Sunbeam - Here's to matching BB!!
I kind of chart: I have used the OPKs and watched CM, but haven't temped yet. I have been a bit reluctant to temp because I work odd hours and wouldn't be temping at the same time each day (though I do know it's possible).
Next cycle I am going to use a fertility monitor, because even with the OPKs, there still was some confustion (light lines as opposed to dark lines). This cycle, I have had a "month off" so to speak, though I KNOW when I ovulated because I have never felt Ov pain like it.
This cycle is already "longer" than typical, it took over three weeks for my HCG to drop, and then I ov'd soon after. So, I expect to have a "visitor" in about another 10 days or so, though I expect that AF won't be as timely as usual.
Has your HCG returned to normal yet? Sorry I'm not much help with the temps, I'm sure some of the other ladies here may be able to help.
Smallfry - I forgot how good Dr Seuss is!!!
Cherished ... are we there yet???
Woo Anila!! go the BD!! LOL Do you know where you are in your cycle??
Hello mrzbaby!
Hello again Coco!
Coco - I've got my sticks so I'm now all set. YAY!
Last night I was reading the Toni Weschler Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book, and I got so depressed reading about the declining fertility with age. Depressing.
Bye for now, I'm off for a few days (no not fun, just work).
Cheerio.
[B]hi ya all of you im new, from uk where is everyone from then?
i had a misscarage in aug 08 and still trying now had 2 spells done(yes im mad lol) u will try anythink
does anyone no any good tablets for male and female to try when trying for a babym
i had a dc when had misscarage .
i have just looked all over the net and found these
menevit,for him
and some think called viex or some think for me,
some times gets me down i cry every time i come on my period think why me i got preg before no problem i have a 9 year old daughter to,
Morning ladies i wont say it's good RB is here right on cue like clock work i woke this morning and my temp is still high 36.8 but went to the loo and there it was brown cm so i guess i'm doing it all again this month.
Cherished- i hope RB doesn't turn up for you
Smallfryplus-well it's not pregnant hormones i've never been so pms before i hope that doesn't happen again it was terrible.
jenny- welcome and sorry that you are here but the girl's are great and we are all after the same thing a BFP and a healthy baby my DH takes menevit and zinc and vitamin c i take elevit, vitex, iodine and extra folic tablet's and i don't drink caffine DH still doe's (naughty boy) and i'm an aussie girl
ferrals - I was hoping so much that it was early preg hormones making you like that. So sorry that it wasn't.
jenny - welcome to the community I always wish I was meeting people in here for different reasons but if any of us can help you as much as I've felt helped in here then it makes things a bit better. (does that make sense?!?!) I'm in Melbourne, Aus.
cherished - that is great news! (ps. how did that loaf turn out?!)
greenslw - how are you this morning? Anything further on yesterday?
sunbeam - you gave me a great idea... vegie soup last night for dinner and it was soooo good the house smells divine this morning too!
milly, coco, anila, mrzbaby hope you all have a fabulous day!
for everyone!! Think we could all do with some good news in here!
I just got the worst new's my genetic councilor rang to tell me the genetic specialist and the professor of the fetal medicine unit at royal the north shore want to see DH and i on the 10th of june as they got abbi's D.N.A test's back and the final autopsy report it look's like we are carrier's of a gene faut that caused our daughter's abnormalities they will test us and try to find the gene responsible then when we fall pregnant again they will do a C.V.S and see if that baby is also effected we are devastated we can have healthy children to our ex's but not each other i called in sick to work as i am crying and cant stop what do we do risk having a baby together or give up we have a 1 in 4 chance each pregnancy
Greenslw-feeling sick sounds good to me i can't help with eostrogen pills but i think you should be fine if you still took it just a bit late.
Anila- what is happening all these people losing their babies.
forgot to add in last post i am still getting niggly pulling feeling and this might be TMI but i feel very h###y and wet and i just feel really good so
Milly5-my 1st AF after i lost abbi was horrendous it was soooooooooo heavy the first 3 days and painful the all of a sudden went back to normal and stopped but my loss was late so not sure if an early loss is the same
Question ladies - does the first cycle / AF after m/c, well does it hurt more than usual??
the reason is - if you count the m/c as CD1, then I should have ovulated last week, but only just getting the the signs today, so I am going to be a week later than usual I think.
Yesterday was sticky CM, this morning EWCM, and this evening - ovulation pain, that I can't recall having ovulation pain like this before. I mean, its not as bad as abdo cramps (and certainly not as bad as the m/c) but for ovulation pain, it's pretty bad.
Is this normal, or are my hormones still just out there, and is this causing it, or is it all just a wierd co-incidence?
Coco - if AF is not due just yet, could it be the signs of implantation bleeding? fingers crossed.
sorry about your BFN Sunny. But it ain't over till the fat lady sings!! I tested negative the day before AF was due, and wasn't until she was a day late that I got the BFP.
Anila - my m/c was 3 weeks tomorrow, so still quite recent too. And I was 8w5days, so even though it was early, it was much wanted and planned for, and we had so many hopes and dreams. Thinking of you.
Ferrals: Abbi loves you just as much as you love her. Dont ever feel like you didnt do enough. She knows you did. Happy Muvva's day hun! Enjoy snuggling the teddy!
As for you last post, im in stitches! You horn dog! Go get 'em tiger! Grrrrrr!
Anila: I hope you continue to find strength and get the much needed support you deserve!
Greenslw: Ive got a cheeky grin on my face right now..........I think you might be.........................you know!
AFM: Just being impatient as per usual! Give me my BFP!
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is this still ok? I'm on two pills morning noon and night.
Well i couldn't help it i had to test it's 2 or 3 days early but i brought one of thoses test before your due date tests well i got a BFN so i think i'm out of the game this month if RB dosn't turn up by friday i will test again i am now miserable, cranky and sad.
lol Im sure it will happen for at least ONE of us soon but sheesh!
hi ya all of you im new, from uk where is everyone from then?
I always wish I was meeting people in here for different reasons but if any of us can help you as much as I've felt helped in here then it makes things a bit better. (does that make sense?!?!) I'm in Melbourne, Aus.
(ps. how did that loaf turn out?!)
milly, coco, anila, mrzbaby hope you all have a fabulous day!
for everyone!! Think we could all do with some good news in here!
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