my BF's baby born died moments from birth also due to a cord accident, time has healed somewhat for them but it most certainly doesnt get any easier for them
your wee man will never be forgotten, nor should he be
Bearmum, I just wanted to send you a massive gigantic e-hug and to let you know that i have cried whilst reading your story about your beautiful boy. Please know that you are supported and loved. I am so glad you have a supportive partner to lean on through this. I don't know what else to say but I am so truly sorry for what you are going through and I think it is so special that you had lots of special time with your son afterwards. Huge hugs hun.
Congratulations on the awesome and empowering birth of your perfect little Jackson.
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I am so, so incredibly sorry for the loss of your son.
I am sorry that you haven't found comfort and understanding thus far. I am also really sorry that you have to put on a happy face for those around you. It's a sad reality of our culture and I wish things were different, just like I wish we didn't feel the need to come up with often trite verbal offerings to try and make sense of a tragedy.
Bearmum, thank you so much for sharing your and Jackson's story with us. I'm so sorry for your loss and sorry also that you were not treated well on another forum. I think you'll find no one will push anything onto you - only you know how you can grieve, as you said, you are an intelligent, thoughtful woman.
Bearmum, I am so sorry that Jackson is not with you. I don't know why awful tragedies like this happen. It sucks and I wish it could be different. I hope that you find BellyBelly a very supportive community where you can share anything you want about your beautiful and precious Jackson.
Bearmum, I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Jackson's story, it was beautiflul and very touching. I know what you're saying about people who are trying to make you feel better with their comments, but that's just it. They are trying to comfort you the best way they can. When I lost my son at 21 weeks two years ago, I found that people tried really hard to make me feel better (although nothing they said could bring my son back), but I was more disappointed with those that said nothing. I felt that they didn't acknowledge Joshua's existance and that really hurt. Two years on, the pain of losing my little boy is as fresh as the day we lost him, and it's incredible how the waves of grief just crash on you when you least espect it. Big hugs hun, and feel free to talk about your grief here on belly. This place has helped me enormously with my own grief.
Dear Bearmum,
I just can't begin to imagine, your story really touched me & it also made me sad about the pain some parents & parents to be have to go through.
There is no rhyme or reason - it can't be that God has a better plan for your little one.....nothing can be better than the plans you had made for your life together....
You are a really brave woman & people like you sharing their stories give people like me perspective, strength & admiration for what some women have to go through.
Big hugs to you for peace & healing & for never forgetting little Jackson.....
May your future be a happy one.....
firstly may I just say Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy, Im very sorry he couldnt stay with you, my thought are with you and your husband xxx
Thank you for sharing your story & welcome to belly belly im sorry its not under better circumstance's.
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