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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2004
    Cairns QLD
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    She sent me a message earlier this morning, Nothing has started yet, apparently it was a busy night with births. Which would have been hard. She seems "ok", keeps saying she knows the worst is yet to come.

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    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    Efjay so glad she is talking to you, she is lucky to have such a caring friend and to you.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
    Trisomy 13

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2004
    Cairns QLD
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    Efjay so glad she is talking to you, she is lucky to have such a caring friend and to you.
    I tell you, Its hard. I know its a gazillion times harder for her, But I am so scared she wont be able to talk to me when I have my baby. I don't want to loose her as my friend.

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    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    You won't lose her hun, she will never forget you for being there for her.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
    Trisomy 13

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    Apr 2010
    Townsville
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    Oh Efjay, it's such a hard and sucky situation!! I am sure she appreciates you being there more than she could ever say!!!! It'll be hard when you have your bub, but you won't lose her.

    Let her know we all love her and are sending hugs and support to her. xx

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    May 2009
    west NSW
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    thankyou everyone for all your words and support. it's been a very hectic week, obviously. we laid our son to rest today, but i feel from hereon everything is going to calm down and reality will hit me.

    when im ready, hopefully soon, i would like to post my story on here, whilst it's still fresh.

    I tell you, Its hard. I know its a gazillion times harder for her, But I am so scared she wont be able to talk to me when I have my baby. I don't want to loose her as my friend.
    and efjay.......that is never going to happen! you are not going to lose me over this. Trust me, you have been amazing xoxoxox
    Last edited by mummydreamer; June 6th, 2011 at 09:54 AM.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2004
    Cairns QLD
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    got to go get some tissues again... Its been a very teary day thinking of you. I just wish I was there.

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    Aug 2010
    Gold Coast
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    Mummydreamer- I am so so sorry for your loss i can't imagine the hell you and your family are going through at the moment, and in the years to come. I don't really know what else to say so i'll just send you a
    Josiah Finn is a beautiful name xo
    May little Josiah be watching over his mummy, daddy and family xoxox

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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    Josiah Finn is a gorgeous name. Sorry your little boy couldn't stay.