Lulu, you know what I was thinking when I read your partner is a "boy-repelent" ???? Have you watched that sene in Bad Boys 2, where the guy comes to pick up the girl for a date and her dad (martin lawrence) and his friend (will smith) is harassing him??
I am sitting her PSML!!!!!!
Actually I was thinking about hiring them, of your partner, for hmmm say about 30 years????
My DH will be quite protective too, but he has no tattoo's for the shock value, but he has about four hunting riffles and her uncle has about five and a long-bow. So we are armed to the teeth
OK, went off topic there
I do think inviting him and getting to know him better, even if you don't realy want too, will be wise.
Good Luck!!