Thanks for the words ladies , it doesnt seem to matter what we do for her she never appreciates it being the oldest she has allways gotten to do everything first like go to sleepovers , parties etc before her little sisters.

I dont think that DH and i are asking too much of them , but she makes us feel like we do.

They have been pretty good on paying the rent till recently , she actually pays hers by automatic electronic transfer .But she asks to borrow money all the time and owes us hundreds.

We cant afford to live here by ourselves at the moment , because we are in some serious debt from moving . But with the amount she borrows it probably wouldnt make much difference.

By the way DD and her BF get more per week than we do , i get a part pension because i have serious back problems and DH has a fairly low paid job .

So after moving out of home when i was 16 and PG with her and having to do it very tough DH and dont really appreciate getting this sort of treatment .

Casscart my other 2 girls 15 and 14 are nothing like thier sister , even though they have all been raised the same .
They are getting really sick of her as well because she acts so childish and irrisponsible, so hopefully yours might turn out to be good girls

Our lease is up in 3 months so i am really looking forward to moving and getting our lives back , i decided a while ago i dont want them to move with us , my sanity couldnt stand it . And we told them that with the baby we probably wouldnt be able to get a house big enough for all of us so they should make other arrangements. I just dont think i can wait till then . You really have to be here to understand what things are like.