Did someone actually show her what to do with them, or was she just given the packet of pads?

I think she should have to wash her clothes herself etc.

I must say I've had to keep on DD's back about rinsing her undies etc. My SDD was even worse, just chucking the knickers under the bed etc.

The one other thing is this - DD is 15 and would rather DIE than buy her own pads or have anyone else acknowledge that she has it at all. Perhaps she is still in denial....