yes i think you're right, i'm not sure where i'll find the extra money from tho, but i do see your point about independence, especially seeing as i'm not keen for him to work whilst in high school, but that may change as he matures more.

he does mow the lawn so i'll pay him for that. i wont pay for him to do basic living chores to keep his space clean or to help out as i personally feel that's part of being in the family and living here and what not, but yes, paid for the lawn will keep him going .. thanks for the suggestion