Hi Milka,

I feel for you - it's a horrible thing that you are going through. Just remember that it doesn't mean that you'll have any problems conceiving or carrying a pregnancy - sometimes there's a few false starts.

DTD for the first time after a miscarriage can be a bit emotional - especially if both you and DH/P are a bit worried that it might hurt. Regardless of what your dr says, you might be more comfortable waiting until you feel emotionally and physically ready to get back on the horse, and waiting a cycle helps you feel like your body has regained normality.

After my last mc my partner and I waited a cycle before DTD - and we managed to conceive on the first go - (probably luck more than anything) - we weren't actually trying to conceive, but weren't trying to stop it either. We were prepared that it would take a couple of months before anything happened. Your body can do amazing things when your mind is least expecting it!