Thanks again Flowerchild,
I have an obs appt but it isn't until November. I thought if my GP could run the routine bloods I could at least go to the obs with a bit of a head start-- and maybe even something for him to monitor (!) if the autoimmune, etc comes back negative. After my first m/c we did all the right things and waited about 5 months before TTC. This time around I'm not feeling as patient. I'm 29 years old and DH and I thought we were doing everything right buying a house, doing the overseas trips we wouldn't be able to (afford to) do with kidlets, becoming financially secure, etc and now all I can think is I spent all that time trying not to get pg only to find when I eventually did...oh to be psychic!! Now it seems every woman I've ever met is duffed and I find myself thinking about my bubs that never were-- I actually had my last D&C on the day that my first one was due!!

Anyway thanks a bunch for your responses. I've found the forums generally so helpful and it's really comforting to hear others thinking and feeling as I do. Nice to know you're not alone!