Hi Pandagirl,

So sorry to hear of your loss. I can just imagine the kind the things that are running through your head each day since this occurred. I'm happy to hear the your DH is being so supportive. Perhaps the rest of the family is trying in their own way to support you too but sometimes people just don't know how to say the things we need to hear at such an upsetting time.

Just over a month ago my DP and I had the same good news that we were also expecting our first. We found out earlier (about 4 weeks) and were so excited we told both our families. A week later the same thing as you - I also did not require a D&C. Our families were and still are wonderful. Even though I was pregnant for such a short time the loss that I felt was giant. It actually surprised me. I went back to see my doctor and he said that we could start trying ASAP so long as I was mentally ready. He said that a lot of women don't really give themselves time to heal spiritually. I felt ready to try again the following cycle. So fingers crossed that we are blessed with the good fortune to fall again and that this next one sticks.

I wish you peace on your journey and good luck with your future TTC.