Oh Pandagirl there is no ONLY is MC, if you are 3 weeks or 30 weeks you have still lost a baby and all the dreams that go with it!

I was so suprised and knocked for 6 when it happened to me and i did have another child to go home and hold. I had to have 2 D&C's and had a very bad time with it physically....I swapped OB's (whole other story) and when i went to her to get checked out that everything was ok to start trying again she did a ultrasound and there was my little Evie girl 5w3d's it was amazing and so scary to see! it was also then a very llllloooooonnnnggggggg pregnancy but i then started to enjoy it at 18weeks.

SO i guess it didnt matter to my body that we fell again so soon...

Give yourself time and feel whatever you need to feel! gain support from those who understand and ignore those that dont understand!