Dear Panda Girl,

I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. I know how hard it is to lose that little precious one inside of you (I had 3 m/c`s last year). As the other girls in here have mentioned, nothing can prepare you for the emotions you experience during a m/c. I am so glad your DH is so supportive.

My advice is to please be kind to yourself and don`t beat yourself up while you are riding that horrible rollercoaster of emotions you experience post m/c. Give yourself the chance to grieve and feel what it is you are feeling.

I am sure that 2009 will bring you what your heart desires.

I am wishing you lots of positive vibes.

Take care of yourself.