Mumtoromone..you're saying exactly what i have been thinking.

Its not fair, not at all... and then it makes it 100 times worse when you can't fall pregnant straight away. I am on my third cycle and im completely gutted and obessed. Noone can understand why i am so impatient and why i want to be pregnant so bad...they keep saying...."it will happen" "its only been two months" "it can take up to a year" "i dont want this baby if its a boy, i cant handle another son" ......."so and so took six months" i feel like saying, but you are not the one that lost you're child!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you're not the ones who had a baby in you're belly, and now there is nothing....you're not the ones that still look pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and it consumes me...so i totally understand were you are coming from and hope you get you're BFP really soon...