It's good that others feel this way, I feel like I haven't had time to grieve but I feel cheated of everything, our future plans and now I'm actually going to freak out till I'm past 12 weeks with the next pregnancy whereas I haven't worried before

So many of my friends are trying for number two, it's like a race to announce it on fb it seems. I'm certainly not racing but it's disheartening when everyone else is getting what they want..