Hi Mannie2903,

Sorry to hear of your loss as well. This is a fantatic website for support isn't it.

I am italian as well, so once my family found I was pregnant it was such a joy, but since I have lost bub, it's been great as you can never have enough family to support you. I will try and get that book you recommended.

Both my partner and I are 42, I know it will happen in time.