Hi Human Bean,

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I can understand you not wanting to get pregnant again as yet cos it's absolutely terrifying to face the prospect of another loss.

I had a complete m/c in April 07 and got pregnant with my DD the first cycle after the m/c. I was so scared that I would lose her and my early weeks of pregnancy were pretty miserable with lots of freaking out. But I'm glad we took the gamble of trying again as having DD was definitely worth it

I had a missed m/c recently with a d&c two weeks ago. We really would like a sibling for our DD so essentially we have no choice but to try again. My DH says he can't face the prospect of losing another bub but given there's no foolproof solution to preventing another m/c, all we can do is try. But it's sooooo scary.

I definitely understand how scary it is to face the prospect of another loss. I hope when you decide that the time is right that you will get your baby in your arms.