No more excuses

[human bean]

Thanks Ladies for your support - it's strangely comforting to know I'm not the only one that may be feeling this way. I do agree that it's a contrast of either putting off the bad or delaying the good.....soooo scary and quite an emotional rollercoaster.

I guess one of the biggest obstacles after actually falling pregnant again will be to relax and not spend the first trimester+ sick with worry that something could be wrong. This will probably be my biggest fear as we had a missed miscarriage so I had no idea that anything was wrong for a couple of weeks.

I hope we all get to hold our much wanted babes in our arms soon.... and thanks again.

[chris]

Hi HB
Do you feel ready to start TTC? (I understand the worried about staying pregnant part.) If your cycle is going well (for you) there is nothing stopping you from trying. Just remember that it takes time to fall that it might not happen the first month that you are TTC.

I was worried all through my preg with Miss D. I had the worst kind of pregnancy, I had pregnancy induced high BP from 11 weeks that just got worse through the pregnancy. I was in hospital quite a few times. I also got something called Irritable Uterus in the last few months. There was soooo many times I thought I was going to loose my baby.

But after going through it all I have come out of it all with a beautiful baby girl.

When you feel ready to TTC, ready to go through hell for that beautiful little baby at the end of the pregnancy. Start But you need to be ready to go through the good and also (god forbid) bad times to get that little bub.


There are so many women I went through my pregnancy with who had a bad time and there are also some who had a wonderful stress free pregnancy. You have to take that chance.

Good luck with what ever you decide.
Take care
Chris

[human bean]

Thanks Chris, and sorry it's taken so long for me to reply as we've just moved house and been offline for over a week.

I do feel ready to TTC again, and thankfully my cycles are pretty much like clockwork so we'll just see how we go from here on in. BB has been so great to work through all of these fears and something so simple as posting about how I feel does wonders to work through issues! It also helps to hear success stories such as yours to help alleviate the fears that creep in.

Thanks again,
HB

[chris]

Better start
Sending you lots of


Just remember that it can take time to get a BFP.

Take care
Chris