ooohh yes children can be very lovely cant they ( not)
chloe went through a stage where she was back chatting and at times would say, that i have a big bum or my belly is huge and i would tell her that it was not nice to say things like that about people as it can hurt there feelings lol look at what we have to look forward to in the coming teenage years
everyone here is fine, dp is back at work he will be home thursday night and i got myself a job at woolworths just on checkouts, plus i might have a job at another shop as well, hopefully will find out about that one sometime this week. we are planning on getting married on my birthday this yr ( 20th december) so the jobs will help pay for the wedding. as far as ttc well my fertility doc bl**dy retired over christmas so he has refered me to another fertility doctor, so i have to make appoinment with him soon and just see where to go from here, feel a little strange not knowing whats going on, i dont like to sit here for to long watching all of these missed months go by knowing that we could be trying but we arent. but yeah just got to get a few things sorted out first and then i will make an appointment with my new fs, i feel a little bad knowing that i am about to spend all this money on a wedding when it could give us a round of ivf, oh well not to worry.
munchy and mummy2chloe:
Doesn't the Universe just seem so random sometimes? This is why the philosophers through the ages went around and around with the question of why some people suffer and others don't...
I think it's hard to explain the ambivalence of TTC and seeing other people get preg--how you can be in pain but happy for them at the same time. Unless you've lived through it, it can't be explained.
But on a lighter note, I hope Harvey enjoys football. My 11 year old son plays on his school's basketball team, we're right in the middle of the season. But he really likes it and all the boys in his class (it's a small school) are on the team, so it's a real camaradarie builder.
and mummy@chloe, I know what you mean about little kids saying insensitive remarks. And you know they don't mean it, because they don't think any less of a person who is different, or whatever. They're just innocently curious. Then we have to teach them to keep their curiosity to themselves LOL! Good luck with the wedding planning.
i am dreading the teenage yrs i have a feeling girls could be worse with there hormones and worrying about there boyfriends etc but not sure hope harvey isnt to bad my sister was a terrible teenager where i wasnt as bad but my dh was a good one seems weird to think of him as a teenager when he is still my baby always will be sometimes i will say oh baby what you done if he huts himself and he turns and says im not a baby bless him obviously i say it as a phrase but he dont no that. so planning wedding it is hard work but fun i love planning things so i enjoyed doing mine so winter wedding how lovely i always wanted to get married near christmas when it was frezing and snowing and wear a dress with deep red in it i got married on valentines day so was still cold had ivory dress with deep red rosses going around my chest was beautiful well make sure you dont work yourself to hard my mum works at woolworths but she works in the canteen bit dishing out the food and that in the cafe but she is looking for another job now as she wants something that pays a bit more cos she wants to move out my aunties and get her own place. well i hope you get the fetality thing going again lewis done his sperm test this morning so will hopefully gt results at the end of the week he says he has a feeling there is something wrong with him but i just think its me well hopefully not to long to wait and then i have my hospital appointment next week a feel like at least things are starting to move forward anyway i have to go do some work i really cant be bothered i am due af this week and just feel really tired so think it is on its way take care honey
i agree not matter what they will always be our babies lol
best of luck with lewis sperm test, with any luck things will come back good, let me know how you go with it ok.
I am going to look at wedding dresses next week with chloe, just going to be me and her for the day, thought it would be a nice mother and daughter day out, i know she is going to love it as she is soooo excited about it. our wedding is going to be in summer which is a bugger as chrissy time in australia is usually like really really hot, but it still should be nice, we wont be getting married till late in the afternoon, as it will be far to hot to get married any earlier.
i worked today 10hrs standing shorely does take it out of you hey?? i am still waiting to find out about the other job i applied for, i thought i might have herd something by now as its been a week today, not to worry hopefully i will find out soon.
anyway honey take care and will talk to you later
love Penny
dp is due to come home tomorrow night, but where he is working they are having lots of rain and is flooding so with any luck he might be home late tonight or tomorrow afternoon sometime.
this is my first message from my laptop i am just about to take harvey to school as it is only 8.20 in the morning over hear and thought i would pop on hear it sounds really hot over where you are our summer last year was full of rain and floods typical british weather although i dont like the heat myself i prefer a sunny day but cold if that makes sence. sounds like you will have a lovely mother and daughter day choosing dresses chloe will love it i bet you will have a fantastic wedding day i am excited for you. i cant believe you were on your feet for that long i couldnt do it for that long i think i would callapse ha ha i think i am late on my af i was working it out last night and i came on the 12th of dec and if my cycles are 32 days it means i am about 4 days late but like last month i was 11 days late so probably nothing i just thought it would be so good if me and my sister were pregnant together i would love that so much as there would only be a few days between our babys as she came on her period on the 11th of dec. anyway i had better go take harvey to school and let the dog in from garden hope DH gets to come home early and buy the way nice to finally no your name we have talked for so long and never new each others name take car speak soon chicken.
i cant believe it i got a this morning couldnt believe my eyes me and my sister will be due around the same time i just feel like it is to good to be true keep worrying that something will go wrong with 1 of us i really hope it dont as she has had 2 M/C and i lost brooklyn just hoping this is our yr of health and happiness. its early days for me just hope everything is fine. i just hope its all you girls turn next.
i am in tears, honey i am soooooooooooo happy for you i cant believe it
my darling you deserve every second of this, i cant believe it my god i am so happy, these damn tears wont stop rolling down my face, who would of ever thought, 9 pages of this thread you and i have been going for and you have finally got a gorgeous bfp, wow i am sooo proud of you
how exciting you and your sister are preggers together, how awesome is that
now no stressing ok, just enjoy what you have just made, and thats a little bubba
rest up and take it easy
wow honey congrats
take care
now please dont go off and desert me, can you still stick around and talk to me?? hopefully i will be able to join you one day??
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this morning couldnt believe my eyes me and my sister will be due around the same time i just feel like it is to good to be true keep worrying that something will go wrong with 1 of us i really hope it dont as she has had 2 M/C and i lost brooklyn just hoping this is our yr of health and happiness. its early days for me just hope everything is fine. i just hope its all you girls turn next.
i cant believe it
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