munchy and mummy2chloe:
Doesn't the Universe just seem so random sometimes? This is why the philosophers through the ages went around and around with the question of why some people suffer and others don't...
I think it's hard to explain the ambivalence of TTC and seeing other people get preg--how you can be in pain but happy for them at the same time. Unless you've lived through it, it can't be explained.
But on a lighter note, I hope Harvey enjoys football. My 11 year old son plays on his school's basketball team, we're right in the middle of the season. But he really likes it and all the boys in his class (it's a small school) are on the team, so it's a real camaradarie builder.
and mummy@chloe, I know what you mean about little kids saying insensitive remarks. And you know they don't mean it, because they don't think any less of a person who is different, or whatever. They're just innocently curious. Then we have to teach them to keep their curiosity to themselves LOL! Good luck with the wedding planning.