Trying to Conceive after Loss or Miscarriage ~ June 08 #2

[mollycat]

Issy so sorry that AF had to show her head (she's been around too much in the last week)

Megsmum - good luck with your TWW

AFM - I've decided to give the tamoxifen another try (hopefully the side effects won't be too bad)

[issy02]

Thanks guys, I really am doing ok...surprisingly!

Jodsan - I will def contact my FS this week, and see if there is any tests he can do to see if there is a problem. Im sure there is, so it would be could to get it sorted!

pbstar - How weird is it that after your long cycle and my chem pg, we both ended up 1 cd apart again? We are cycle buddies again - and yes you're right.....just around the corner hun, it has to be!!!!!

mollycat - looks like your cycling with us too - at least we have eachother to get through this month.... that it ends in a BFP for all of us!!!!

Vanaithi - I wish I had just ov late therefore making af late, but with 3 bfp's im pretty sure I had a chem pg. Something was happening, but didnt make it!

AFM - AF is very painful, not more so than other months, but horrible all the same. I think there is something not good going on as since my d&c, I have had excrutiating af pains for the first few days, not cramping but stabbing pains that make me double over. I hope FS can get to the bottom of it and stop these chem pg that seem to be happening every 6 months

Ill bbl for more persies....sorry, have been a bit slack there

Issy

[Vanaithi]

sorry issy! i didnt get my facts straight! sorry about your chem pgs! maybe there's some tissue left over in there? i hope your probs sorts themself out!

[Where there's hope]

Hi everyone. Have not managed a post in a few days, but have been keeping an eye on you all and have been trying to send some really positive vibes!

Megsmum- that was kind of you to tell me about your scan, follicles, ovaries, etc. I ended up caving and ringing the radiologist about there being follicles in just one side. I did not get to speak to the guy who wrote my report, but another radiologist was great to answer my questions. He said "usually you would see follicles growing on both sides (on Day 9), but it is not unusual not to". Hmmmmm...... Good thing to lay low after your IUI (stay in there!) sending you lots of

Betty Boop - Glad your appointment was helpful and I hope your new treatment helps you.

Jen - CONGRATS on your first official coverline Your body is totally reactivated. Temping is addictive, eh?? Love your "addicted to BB" lines - you are quite a character and made me giggle I am trying very hard to come up with something equally as witty. Not Father's Day here but your day out sounds like heaps of fun!

Acria - good luck with trying this cycle!

Jodsan - that is great you are completing your studies. I took off a year before uni and a year in the middle of it all. It took so much motivation to return, but I was so glad I saw it through! I was a lot younger and had did not have DD, so triple-points to you hon' - completing it will be such an achievement!! I am sorry about your disappointing bloodtest results. they the results give you some much needed answers

AJC - I am so glad your scan went well. I was thinking of you that day

Jenushka - thanks for the TTC tips. Sending you some very special

Krystielove - you are a classic! It has got to the point where I must be peeing for some reason other than emptying my bladder. I totally get it (lol)

Vanaithi - interesting signs. Did you have signs like that before? I am on 5dpo so I will be keeping an eye on you!

Angelbabies - if you are out there - your comment about the ladies on this thread who have progressed to having lovely swellling bellies is great encouragement. Thank you

Sandigirl - I think if it is just after your first AF and it is brown (old) that it is just your body settling down. If it is fresh (red) then do talk to your GP/FS (this is what is happening to me).

Issy, Jodsan, PBStar, Mollycat - truly, truly sorry to all you girls about AF. I know you are very disappointed and frustrated.

AFM - BD'ed our little hearts out this month. We've given it our absolute best shot. I now have a silly headcold and hope the antibodies don't hamper our efforts. We'll wait and see. More MC-related BT on day 22 tomorrow, but not expecting to find anything. It is more insurance for our next PG (WHICH WILL HAPPEN!!!) I have decided to use some purple in my posts because it is believed to be a powerful and magical colour. Here's spreading some cybermagic!

Take care everyone x

[Where there's hope]

Jodsan - just a quick edit on my previous note to you about completing Uni studies. I was talking about my "being a lot younger" THAN I AM NOW when I went back to finishing my degree. Hope I did not imply anything about your age (which I would swap with you in a heartbeat).

[Where there's hope]

Jodsan - just a quick edit on my previous note to you about completing Uni studies. I was talking about my "being a lot younger" THAN I AM NOW when I went back to finishing my degree. Hope I did not imply anything about your age (which I would swap with you in a heartbeat).

[Vanaithi]

where there's hope! interesting thing about the purple - im wearing practically all purple today! here's to sharing some purple magic around!

as for the warm / cold & numb signs, cant recall the last time sorry! it wasnt expected, but i think the belly cramps & aches were around before... but then i prolly put it down to something i ate that didnt go down well. but then it went on for a while so subconsciously i was thinking thats a bit funny... hmm dont know if im much help! but lets just share some 'signs' i have been experiencing since o'ing...

- cm creamy for the past 4 days...
- warm / cold & numb feeling in the belly & back - whole middle area... this started today i think... 6dpo, my temp this morning jumped to 36.9 so thats not implantation...
- little cramps that come & go since o...
- sensitive skin: on my face - mainly chin & forehead... elsewhere: thighs & bum... started since o i think...
- breakouts: little pimples on my forehead mainly... & forehead has dry skin...started over the weekend... 5dpoish...
- pin *****ly feelings in the middle of the belly today...
- v feels sort of achey/throbby like during af... iykwim? comes & goes...
- occasional stitch like feeling on the right side... felt today...
- aches & pains like during af in lower back & sometimes other places, feels like one ache here then later somewhere else... like pokes..?

also when i o'd which i believe was last monday 9/05 night, my middle belly area was feeling very warm - like burning, & below it was a stabby feeling.

well they might be something & they might be nothing! but let me know how you are feeling now & whether you've noticed it before - if anyone has input please do!

[Vanaithi]

where there's hope! interesting thing about the purple - im wearing practically all purple today! here's to sharing some purple magic around!

as for the warm / cold & numb signs, cant recall the last time sorry! it wasnt expected, but i think the belly cramps & aches were around before... but then i prolly put it down to something i ate that didnt go down well. but then it went on for a while so subconsciously i was thinking thats a bit funny... hmm dont know if im much help! but lets just share some 'signs' i have been experiencing since o'ing...

- cm creamy for the past 4 days...
- warm / cold & numb feeling in the belly & back - whole middle area... this started today i think... 6dpo, my temp this morning jumped to 36.9 so thats not implantation...
- little cramps that come & go since o...
- sensitive skin: on my face - mainly chin & forehead... elsewhere: thighs & bum... started since o i think...
- breakouts: little pimples on my forehead mainly... & forehead has dry skin...started over the weekend... 5dpoish...
- pin like feelings in the middle of the belly today...
- v feels sort of achey/throbby like during af... iykwim? comes & goes...
- occasional stitch like feeling on the right side... felt today...
- aches & pains like during af in lower back & sometimes other places, feels like one ache here then later somewhere else... like pokes..?

also when i o'd which i believe was last monday 9/05 night, my middle belly area was feeling very warm - like burning, & below it was a stabby feeling.

well they might be something & they might be nothing! but let me know how you are feeling now & whether you've noticed it before - if anyone has input please do!

[Vanaithi]

where there's hope! interesting thing about the purple - im wearing practically all purple today! here's to sharing some purple magic around!

as for the warm / cold & numb signs, cant recall the last time sorry! it wasnt expected, but i think the belly cramps & aches were around before... but then i prolly put it down to something i ate that didnt go down well. but then it went on for a while so subconsciously i was thinking thats a bit funny... hmm dont know if im much help! but lets just share some 'signs' i have been experiencing since o'ing...

- cm creamy for the past 4 days...
- warm / cold & numb feeling in the belly & back - whole middle area... this started today i think... 6dpo, my temp this morning jumped to 36.9 so thats not implantation...
- little cramps that come & go since o...
- sensitive skin: on my face - mainly chin & forehead... elsewhere: thighs & bottom... started since o i think...
- breakouts: little pimples on my forehead mainly... & forehead has dry skin...started over the weekend... 5dpoish...
- pin like feelings in the middle of the belly today...
- v feels sort of achey/throbby like during af... iykwim? comes & goes...
- occasional stitch like feeling on the right side... felt today...
- aches & pains like during af in lower back & sometimes other places, feels like one ache here then later somewhere else... like pokes..?

also when i o'd which i believe was last monday 9/05 night, my middle belly area was feeling very warm - like burning, & below it was a stabby feeling.

well they might be something & they might be nothing! but let me know how you are feeling now & whether you've noticed it before - if anyone has input please do!

[Vanaithi]

something funny is going on with my posts...

[Jodsan]

Girls, BB keeps timing out on me so I imagine that's what's happening, you think your posts having gone through but they must have!

WTH - dont worry, you didn't offend me at all. It's good to hear others who have done it and "Saw it through". Though it seems difficult money wise, etc at the moment, I'm sure in 18 months time I'll be so glad I did it. GL for this cycle!!

Vanaithi - Could definately be implantation. After you O, blood comes out with the follicle and spills all around your pelvis, which is why we often get a slight burning feeling in the pelvis for a couple of days after O, could be that too. The stabbing feeling is what I have had which I think is implantation, it feels very nervy!? Really hope it is, got my fingers crossed for you!!

[bettyboop]

i am waiting to 0, doc said i didnot 0 last month, i thought that looking at my temp and chart, fingers crossed for this month.

[Muffy]

Hi ladies,
im really really sorry to hear the sad news!!!! Hugs to you all!!!!
i never realised how hard it actually is for some people to fall pregnant.
You are all so strong i dont think i could have waited so long!
you are all amazing!!!

[Baby Angels]

Where there's hope...... I m always lurking somewhere.... lurking.... stalking... goodness.. its a fine line

It would be interesting to have the time to go through all the posts in the last 6 months and do the list of every BFP.... It would be a fat tummy "athon" it would be a huge list... .. a list that you will all probably find yourselve on before you know it.

[jen805]

issy--NOOOOOO! I can't believe it! I sure do feel like an ass I'm so very sorry, hun, there's no words to express! You're so strong and, as usual, an inspiration to us all. Even though you say you felt detached, I know that it has to be absolutely heartbreaking-- Sorry AF is being such a b**ch, I really hope the FS can give you some clues as to why this is happening. Oh, issy, I really, truly am so very sorry...


megsmum--Praying your IUI was successful! Good luck in your :tww: Don't want to go back to check for fear of losing my post, but I think you said you're 5DPO? That's where I am, so hopefully we'll both get some good news this month! Stay away flo!


Jodsan--Hey, I was wondering if you were only born with 1 kidney? Just asking because my DSD was born with only 1 kidney, and I had never even heard of that being possible, so was just curious... Apparently the 1 kidney she does have is like a super-kidney! I wish you the best of luck, and pray that someone can give you the answers you're seeking!


mollycat--Praying the tamoxifen works with little to no side effects! Wishing you :goodluck2: with this cycle!


WTH--Praying you get that magical BFP after all that BD effort! Good luck with your BT's today, hoping all is well!


bettyboop--Bring on the O! Good luck for this cycle, and fingers are crossed you'll catch that egg!


Vanaithi--Oooh, praying those are implantation signs!!! Fingers are crossed!


laura133--Just noticed your DS and I share the same b-day! Thanks for looking in on us!


pbstar--Happy for you that AF finally showed! It always seems odd to be cheering for flo, doesn't it? I guess she is good for some things... Time to get back into the game for a fresh start! Good luck this go-around!


smilanatu--Grrrr! Sorry about AF! I had high hopes for you since she was late! Praying she's easy going as usual!


I added a few more to the "addicted" list...