This world is just so unfair. Ive just found out my cousin is 8 weeks pregnant with twins. Another chance for me to cry some more today. Im really excited for her but just feel so miserable myself!
Its a feeling sorry for myself kind of day!
Hello all,
thanks again for all the kind thoughts. I have managed to get a referral for the 29th, so heres to a sticky, bub filled 2009 for all of us.
erybery- hang in there. DH and I have just got back from dinner with our best friends, and they told us they were pregnant. Talk about conflicting feelings! Its so wonderful, they have been trying to get pg for 2 years so its fantastic. But I have not even finished bleeding from my mc last week. It would have been wonderful to be pregnant together. Trying so hard not to be jealous. Don't think I am really, but very sad.
Maternal Bride- welcome, and I'm sorry that you have joined us. The ladies here are wonderful and I hope you get as much support here as I have found.
fificlare- keep up that growing. great stuff!
Toccara- glad you are starting to feel 'normal' again (well physically better anyway). My body is certainly starting to heal but my head- well thats another story
Tam- you hang in there. Sending you lots of and try to keep your chin up till Thursday. I'm sure waiting is the hardest part.
Issy, megsmum, and smi- lots of , keep growing those bubs!
Jen- thank you for all your kind thoughts. Hope you are having a good week and you are feeling better.
Z's mum- thoughts are with you, hope you are going ok.
WTH- sounds like the weekend was fun All good!
Polly- Hope you are feeling ok. I think frustration and over analyzing is all part of the TTC road. Take a breath and keep going. Sure we are all going to get there.
Mannie- good luck with your FS on the 23rd. I think its good to be doing something about this, don't you? Proactive is good!
HannahD, Mel79 and all others, lots of and hoping for for all of us.
AFM...still waiting to "feel" pregnant...lack of symptoms kinda worries me...I'll be so glad when January 14th gets here! Someone said it best when they said...Christmas is coming fast but the pregnancy weeks seem to drag...
mumstheword--Oops, I always forget that the VIP membership is different that the free one! Sorry about that. I tried the free one for a couple months when I was just trying to follow my signs on my own... then I started temping and found it much easier to have FF do the work for me! *hugs* for you!
Mel--You don't always have to put on a brave face... I've found that the more you try to pretend like everything is ok when it's really not, the longer the healing process takes. Allow yourself to feel all these emotions you're feeling--and don't feel like you're a bad person for feeling them! The jealousy and bitterness will soon fade... and remember, none of us are the same person we were before we m/c... it changes you...you can't expect to feel and be the same person you were after the trauma you've been thru. Embrace what you're thinking and feeling... and keep looking out for the new woman you will become.
Indy--You're in my thoughts and *hugs!*
Maternal bride--I'm sorry that you've come to join our little thread, but hope that you find yourself enveloped with support, comfort, and love from the many of us that are here. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son!
plc--10 days left!!! OMG, I have the butterflies for you!! So exciting!!
Z's mom--You don't always have to cope well! Feel free to vent, scream, yell, cry.... sometimes you have to take those steps back in order to see where the next step forward will take you.
Oops, have to make DS's lunch and get him off to school. Will be back in a while for the rest of the persies!
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to all, and a big Hi to all the newbies sorry you have had to come here, but these ladies are wonderful and will be such a help xx
I'm so glad to have found you all even though I wish we weren't in this situation.
and try to keep your chin up till Thursday. I'm sure waiting is the hardest part.
All good!
for all of us.
OMG, I have the butterflies for you!! So exciting!!
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