smi...... understand totally..... and from what I ve heard... that "one day at a time" thing works a treat...... Going from trying to build a family to being single would take some pretty decent head space to work out. Its also difficult when you know in your head it s the right thing... but your routines that you are used to keep telling you something is missing. Takes some serious getting used to......

If i may add something... i found... bed buddies was good....ROFL.... no relationships... no pressure... just pure fun and enjoyment..... ohhh i know there are soooo many people out there gettin on their high horse right now... but ..... ummmm toooo bad....LOL... Single doesnt have to be a sentence Smi.... it wasnt when I was single... infact DH had a hell of a time getting a commitment out of me... mind you... he wasnt in a hurry for one either...... boy... that was fun

And one futher thing.... dont you dare be a stranger...... we are all here for each other that s who we are and what we do... just because things have changed slightly doesnt mean we are no longer here for you... we are now... just as we have been before.

Now to Fab 2 and 3...... I have one thing to say......'Last night I heard my mumma singing a song...... ohhhhh weeeeee chirp a chirp a cheap cheap........ woke up this morning and my mumma was gone.... ohhhh weeeeeee chirp a chirp a cheap cheap...chirp a chirp a cheap cheap yeah"

night all