Hi Everyone,
I cannot BELIEVE how busy this thread is. I haven't been online for a week and it's taken me two sessions just to catch up and this third one to reply! I had to scan the posts so I have definitely missed people but here goes:
Welcome to Heybacko, Herbie, Megsmum, Lalla and Claudia, a mc is a terribly sad thing and very hard to accept but I feel so much better now than I did two months ago and I hope you all will too.
Sarah066, Janeo and Leyla, sorry to hear the dreaded AF arrived. I have a feeling I will be the next to announce her arrival, watch this space....
Sharon, what a beautiful ceremony you had for your angel, it sounded perfect. I'm sorry to hear the pg sounds like it may not have worked out this time but never say never, stranger things have happened. I have my fingers crossed for you.
Salt, you poor thing. I hear you about it taking so long for your body to return to normal. It seems like when one things feels like it might be back to normal again, the next thing hurdle pops up to stop you in your tracks. Hopefully this clot will be the last hurdle for you and then you're body will be ready for a happy, healthy, full term bub.
Bun, you poor thing. You always have such positive and good advice for other people. You need to start listening to yourself! Bekz has mentioned relaxation and positive thinking a couple of times and I joined a gentle yoga and meditation class about a month ago and it has done me the world of good. I told the teacher, who is a naturopath, about my mc and she has been great and given me loads of advice about different positions which help fertility and homeopathic remedies I can take. I feel so much more positive since I started this. She asks us at the beginning of the class to picture in our minds the one thing we want to welcome into our life and devote the class to it. No prizes for guessing what I picture! I think something like this could really help you.

As for me I was very confused about when O happened this cycle. I haven't been temping or using OPK, just going by CM and pain in my side which have always been reliable for me. Had EWCM on CD18 which would have been normal O time so had a few BD sessions but then on CD 22 got a really bad pain in my left ovary for a couple of days so had DH at work again for a couple of days! Going by the second date (and I know Bun you said that you O'd late after your mcs) I am 9 DPO now and am dying to test but I know it's too early. I have sore boobs but also am really irritable which is more a sign of AF. Am not felling tired or sick at all so not holding out much hope this month.
To all I missed, apologies.

Tonners x