Herbie - lol- you just gave me the funniest vision of you getting up to pee and the little spermies swimming so hard in the other direction just trying to reach their target. I hope they make it there!!

Sharon - At least if it is a chem pg you can get straight back on the TTC wagon again. I don't even know if a chem pg is a m/c or not - I didn't really count mine as one, as AF was only 2 days late and I only ever got a really faint positive anyway. Not sure - but at least it is nothing like having to go through the pain of a D & C or a scan showing a missed m/c - these are the things that terrify me. If a pg is not going to make it, I would much rather it be right at the beginning than at any other time. This thinking is what makes me feel better anyway. I hope you are doing ok.

satya - it is probably a good idea to keep it simple with your colleague. I suppose he may not want to talk about it and it is hard to know what they want you to do/not do at a time like this. I just feel so very bad for them. I hope the cramping eases up.

My pg friend is having her first scan tomorrow and I am seeing her on the w/e. Things are still a bit strained between us and I don't feel I can talk to her as freely as I could before - I guess I don't want to burden her with my issues if she doesn't feel she can talk to me about what is going on in her life, esp as she had been worried about her pg and hadn't confided in me. I am also concerned that I am the reason she is worried - she has heard so many bad things about pg and m/c from me lately, and I know that she was only excited and not worried about scans with her other two pgs, so am feeling v guilty and I don't want to talk to her about my worries and what has been happening lately. I feel like a v bad friend. The trouble is that this has been such a big part of my life lately, I don't feel like I have anything else to talk about! Oh well...