Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss April/May 2010

[KitFaerie]

Ferrals: *hugs* hon, I'll be praying super hard for a stupidly dark second line!

MurrayCod: Good luck today! Hope you have some nice relaxing time scheduled for after!

Love to everyone xo

[murraycod]

Thanks for the well wishes today girls XX
I was just popping in to see Ferrals result today, will be back thisafternoon-evening to catch up with everyone.

Ferrals, HUG HUG HUG, ignore todays result, try again tomorrow. Am thinking of you sweetheart. Darn sticks are evil you know XX

[millyd]

OhAlice, sorry I didnt mean close the thread, I just meant a new one will already be going, we're already on page 14, we only get 20 pages and they start us up again xxxxx and we've already been through 20pages in april. hehehe we all talk so much xxxxx I will keep reading now, I only got to Alices post and just wanted to correct myself.
Talk again soon, lots of reading overnight to catch up on xx

[Iona Macca]

ooh ferrals, i hope it's a false neg. thinking of you today.

murraycod - i hope all goes well today

[Bons]

Wow Ferrals!! I can see that second line! Im with Murraycod POAS is evil, but False Neg are common you will get another BFP later today!

So Sorry Crafty.....Get yourself a big block of chocolate, a cup of tea, put your feet up and relax later tonight, As the saying goes "good things come to those who wait", they didnt mention patience anywhere in there though! Thinking of you hun!xxx

Will be back later with more...heading to see my old mothers group, being the only one that hasnt had a 2nd or 3rd baby, feel a bit weird going today.

Big hugs to everyone!
xxx

[possum magic]

Murray Cod: I feel terrible: forgot to wish you luck for your biopsy. Was it on Monday? Hope it went well. Saw your list of tablets. Impressive list: you will rattle when you walk!

Ferrals: Stupid POAS! Evil things. Hope you get a clearer result later in the week (with a cat peering over your shoulder!)

Crafty: sorry for your BFN. Hope birthday was good anyway.

Alice; enjoy your week

Loops, Saffy: Hi, thanks for well wishes. Am less grumpy today!

[Matthew's Mum]

morning everyone,craftymummy-sorry about the spotting,big hugs...murraycod-hope all goes well today...ferrals-hugs to you as well,so confusing ,the test you used this morning was it the same brand as the ones you got a positive on last night?...t-hopes-how are you?..thinking of everyone

[Loops12]

Just popping in to say Good Luck ferrals, FX that it was just a dodgy test this morning and that you see another line tomorrow and darker.

Hi all and hope you are well.
Sorry AF arriving Crafty Mummy - hugs

AFM ~ Im back to getting hopes up as no AF yet and been getting weird tummy feelings, pain and have been constipated for the last say 5days, is that a good sign of pg? I find it weird because its out of the ordinary for me to be constipated, im not on any of the fertility hormones or progesterone or anything. Also had couple of headspins last night. But because I havent had AF yet since before my last IVF really dont know where my body is at and it means very unlikely im preg but just dont know. Did POAS Fri as you know and BFN, anyone think I should do another?

Thanks ladies, much love
xoxo

[Matthew's Mum]

loops12-yes i would poas again tomorrow morning,fingers crossed for you,did the tractor sell?

[Mildez]

Oh Ferrals what evil evil tests like the others have said. But I still have heaps of hope its just the dodgy urine as for me FMU is not the best. I actually get a more accurate result from later less concentrated urine and I have heard others say the same thing. Maybe the pee is too strong and kills out the HCG. Thats my thoughts anyway on FMU.

Loops your a good girl from not testing again. I couldn't stop myself. I did one yesterday and I haven't even ovulated yet lol (but thats cause I was concerned it would be a BFP and that would mean another ectopic pregnancy) I wanted a BFN and thats what I got I hope so much its a BFP when you test.

[Iona Macca]

loops - POAS again - as they say it's not over until AF shows her face!! FX that it was just too early last week

[ferrals5]

Ok i spoke to our specialist and he said i should not test until after AF is late as DH and I carry a genetic condition i am at high risk of embryo demise (spelling) if i concieve an effected baby so it is quite possible that is what could be happening i think now i will just wait until AF is late and poas again but i am not hopeful he also said we could concieve multiple times and never know as it is natures way to weed out abnormal babies you can get all the pregnancy signs but then AF shows and that can even happen to people who don't carry the same dodgy gene.(very cruel)
I had a glimmer of hope but i think i have learn't my lesson and will not poas again until late it is not worth the gut wrenching disapointment.
Thanks for all your well wishes and sorry to get you all excited for nothing it is my fault for jumping the gun.
I will be content with my furbabies until we start our ivf hopefully in june if all goes well.
Speaking of IVF i should get all my cycle information and all our test results this week so it will be good to go over all the FS notes ect and the scientists notes to read what they don't tell you.

Mathewsmum-the test was the same a first response early detection.

Loops-why not i have heard of women falling pregnant after m/c without having another cycle in between.

[Iona Macca]

he also said we could concieve multiple times and never know as it is natures way to weed out abnormal babies you can get all the pregnancy signs but then AF shows and that can even happen to people who don't carry the same dodgy gene.(very cruel)

Ferrals, I got told this as well from the radiographer when lil one didn't have a heartbeat. Fingers crossed that you don't need IVF and you get your BFP this weekend. Thinking of you hun

[T-hopes]

ahhh ferrals i dont know what to say... that line looked so clear... im thinking of you but i wouldnt lose hope yet, i understand that it would pretty hard not to though!!! How was your temp this morn??

murraycod - hope all the testing goes well today, your in my thoughts! Deep breath!!! so glad that all your bloods were good, hope your kitty cats are giving you lots of cuddles and most importantly... smiles! xx

matthews mum - how are you doing gorgeous woman??

crafty - oh crafty... im sorry to hear that AF is starting... why does this have to be so damn hard for us all!? hugs to you xx

afm - another BFN for me this morning... just waiting now for the inevitable! I can feel the dull ache starting so the biatch is coming, temp was still up this morn so expecting the drop tomorrow...it has absolutly shattered me this month, cried myself to sleep last night in my beautiful DH's arms... he has been so gorgeous Ive just sqeezed in to see my gyno tomorrow and im going to pressure him for Clomid! I need help! Cause i just aint working! Just worried he'll say no cause my progesterone was already high?? I dont know much about clomid but it just worked 1st go for a g/f of mine!

[ferrals5]

T-Hopes-it dropped again a little to 36.74 it was in the 36.90's
Sorry you got a BFN also why is it all so hard?
If your are ovulating will they still give you clomid i thought it is only for people who don't ovulate regularly.

[T-hopes]

yeah my temp was the same as yours this morn... so do you think clomid is a good idea?? have you used it ferrals?? how was hubby this morming ferrals?? xx

[ferrals5]

T-Hopes-no i haven't used it as i have always O'd and have always had regular cycles (except after the PGD ivf that mucked me up for 2 cycles) i thought it was for women who cant O on there own or very irregularly.
DH had the sh#ts this morning he wanted me to throw all the hpt's CBFM temp chart and thermomitor away he was so excited last night he couldn't wait to see this mornings results i feel like i have let him down to.
Even though i still feel as though i am pregnant my boobs are bigger and sooooooo sore and i feel to good no PMS except the slight irritable feeling yesterday i burst into tears this morning said to DH how much more can we take.

[Loops12]

Thanks ladies.
I'll see what happens today and if still no AF do test tomorrow morning. Not getting hopes up as it is a huge long shot and Ive got a lot of mucous. Dont know whether that is pg mucous or AF def coming. Although normally I get AF on a Sun/Mon and its now Tues. But really I have no idea. I'll be happy with either, obviously BFP would be amazing but AF would be fine.

Matthewsmum ~ thanks for asking about the tractor, nup we didnt hear from the machinery yard where we have it listed. So the guys perhaps not interested or perhaps it was too wet and he didnt come down in the end. At least people are interested so hopefully it sells soon.

Ferrals, T-hopes and Craftymummy
Ferrals - Im feeling for you and DH, its so hard sometimes but hang in there and dont feel bad like you've let DH down. Afterall its nature and we can try as hard as possible to stay healthy etc but at the end of the day it'll be when the time is right. Stay strong and GL for a BFP ASAP. xo