Thanks eliselouise85, I for now I have no option for Dr's, I live in a small Tassie town, 2hrs away from Launceston and Hobart and I have no car. But I should be getting a car in the next few weeks. So my plan is to get a referral to a Gyno and go from there. Thanks for the support, I feel better now. I think I needed a little cry.
My Dr is good, but not so great when it comes to girly things. There is a female Dr that comes here about every 6 weeks, but she is away at the moment. I'd hate to think what it's like living on King Island (were my Best Friend lives) where there isn't even an ultrasound machine, they have to travel to Burnie or Melbourne.
I think I have just been putting it off because I want it to happen by itself, without the stress of trips to "Town" (Launy or Hobart), but after 3 early M/C's in a year and an ectopic 10 years ago, I thinks it's time to look into it.
Thanks again for your kind words.