boble--Sorry to hear about your insomnia, I'm experiencing a bit of the same since I've been sleeping with DS since his surgery! It's a bit like wandering about in La La Land! Best of luck with your tribunal, try not to let it stress you out too much. Never heard of Ruby, but saying lots of prayers that your reading is accurate!



Aww, charm, I'm sorry sounds so lame and insignificant sometimes... but for lack of a better term, I'm truly, truly sorry for your loss! I can't believe people can say such heartless and tactless things--although I think for the most part it's probably well-intentioned-- but honestly, I'd prefer people keep their mouth shut if they haven't been thru a m/c and don't know what to say! The last thing on earth you want to hear when you're grieving the loss of your baby is "maybe it was meant to be", or "at least you know you can get pg", or (and this is the worst!) "at least it happened now, and you didn't have a child born with defects!" Can you believe there's actually people cruel enough to say things like that? Please know that you are among understanding friends here! Allow yourself to feel whatever it is you're feeling--and don't feel ashamed for it! Feel free to vent, scream, cry, yell... it's all part of the grieving process that will help you heal and move forward. The other girls have pretty much covered it with when to TTC again. My dr. advised I wait for 2 cycles, and I didn't have a D&C. Only you will know when you're ready. Wish you the best of luck with your test results--you're in my thoughts and



Shortcake--Glad to hear your dad's surgery went well, and he's now home recuperating! He's in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery!



to Rhi & mrzbaby!



for my fishy friends megsmum & babymiracles (only 4 more sleeps 'til your scan!)