Murraycod - sorry i was typing when you posted.

Thanks so much for your post. you're totally right there. every word that you said makes sense. I'm so glad to have you in here!! *hugs*

You're right, he WAS there for me and so supportive when i had the losses, and the ectopic was super hard for him cos he couldn't do anything. two weeks i can live with LOL, then it'll be O time haha. Nah, you're right though. I probably should give it a break for his sake. I wish guys communicated their feelings more rather than just holding them in and making us guess!!! lol. DP is a really quiet person, he never talks about his stressors, fears etc until he's had a long time to think about it all.

Thanks again hun. You're a gem