CarriePS...Oh sweetie im sooo sorry my heart goes out to you..
i also lost our lil tiny one On DEC 22/09 @ 7 weeks 6 days and passed everything on DEC 29th..My heart goes out to you as well.. I do hope the PM can give you some answers.
I agree the tree planting sounds perfect and i am glad that you also got that opportunity

I know its hard but keep your head up and stay strong for your girls... and do know that one day you will get that chance of being a another mother to a wonderful and healthy baby!
You will be in my 's
Anita