Hi carrie sorry about your loss i hope you get some answers to help we lost our beautiful daughter at 19 weeks 5 days but we found out she had major problems due to a genetic condition before so we unfortunately had to make the most horrendous decision to end the pregnancy as she was a non viable baby (they call them) but having answers hasnt made it any easier i hope you get a BFP soon.
AFM-I spoke to my FS and all is 99% good she said my FSH is on the high end of normal like i said before they like it to be under 10 mine was 10.6 but she is not concerned she said i responded to ivf fantastic i had lots of follicles and she thinks i am nowhere near menopause at least 10-15 years away my number of eggs was great the embryo quality was ok not fantastic but that is because my eggs are 35 years old but i had 3 blastocysts so that was good basicly she said she expects me to be pregnant by may and if im not i am to go back to her and they will do normal ivf (which is a lot cheaper) and get me pregnant quicker as we need to test our bubs at 12 weeks so the quicker the better we wont do pgd again as we decided to just get pregnant and hope we are lucky so to cut it short she said my fertility is normal for my age most women my age will have FSH around the same level thats why it can take longer to get pregnant and my royal jelly and macca tablets have turned up so i am all prepared and to top it off i will be in my fertile period from the 16th when we go on our honeymoon so hope we get a honeymoon baby i think i have rambled enough oh! except i am watching a clearblue fertility monitor on ebay it ends tonight so cross fingers i am the highest bidder.
Mathewsmum-yeh i have lots of eggs and im way off menopause she thinks around 45- 50 it will hit but my eggs are still on the old side so the saying goes quality not quantity but that is why i am on the coq10 that is supose to help with quality so the quicker it happens the better just hope when and if i do get pregnant the baby is not affected with SLO that is when i throw in the towel.
Carrie-that is good news we had Abbi cremated and i have her ashes with her teddy and little footprints here at home my 3 boys diddnt get to hold or see Abbi as we thought it would be to distressing and since the hospital lost the only photos of her we had to have one taken a week after the autopsy which she still looks ok but you can only see her face and hand the ones they lost were of her tiny feet and hands and of us holding her i couldnt believe they deleted them off the digital camera but nothing i can do about it anyway thanks for the honeymoon well wishes hope it works.
Carrieps- Thanks sweetie .. and yeah it kinda does but i try not to let i get to me cause i do know im not the only one having problems or even lost a angel..
We are staying positive and are keeping the faith we have.. Thanks again and many blessings to yo and your family
Matthew's Mum- thanks sweetie..
It really does help to hear other stories and to see how friendly everyone is on here..I feel like a home even though im a newbie!!
hi again all-got a call from fs receptionist,saying fs has seen results from dye tests and other blood tests,and wants to see me sooner to discuss treatments,he apparently rang in between surgerys,so the earliest she could squeeze me in is a week and a bit,so happening sooner than thought.
carrie - welcome to BB, so sorry to hear of your loss... I hope your time here is short and that you find all the support in here as comforting as I have. xox
ferrals - sorry to hear AF arrived but at least you can be certain now and move forward to the next step. xx
cookie - i live in sth eastern suburbs-Rowville, what about you?? and its ok that everything is bumming you out today, tomorrow and maybe even the next day... its one hell of a roller coaster that we all have to ride, just cause your on the down slope now, doesnt mean you wont be heading upwards soon!just go with it xx
crafty - thats right, I knew I had a 2ww buddy!! i wish i had the strength that you had to not test!! Im soooo gunna cave, i can feel it already!!
AFM - boobs are looking very veiny! i have such a strong feeling that this is our month, i feel pregnant! feel very different from the other months! please please please!
ric - i live in sth eastern subs, rowville. we seem to have had a similar journey, we lost at 12 weeks too, starting bleeding and u/s confirmed it. 1st pregnancy and i can completely relate to you when you say you lost all your innocence... i was so relaxed in my last pregnancy, so happy and just enjoyed every second of it! i know next time i will be a crazy stress head and that wont be good for me or bubs!! your in my prayers to get your BFN!!! will be thinking of you!!! oh and i love First Response test! I buy the 3 pack!!! got my BFP last time on day 28 even though I used to have a 35 day cycle so Im sticking with them! xx
Carrie glad you found the strength to join us mad women on here ( speaking of myself anyways ! )
Thanks for the big welcome you have given to Carrieps I just know she will be happy you have given the time to reply to her and I hope it will help her in her journey as you all helped me sooo much in my early days,
Well the piggy twins are great and giving me something else to think about in the TWW so glad of the distraction,
Ferrals thats great news from your fs about your fertility hope mines as good !
Matthews mum wow looks like your on your way to an ivf journey sooner than you thought thats great !
Ric keep going hope our BFP comes sooner rather than later,
Mummy of 4 don't beat yourself up its still early days you will get there soon and another BFP will make the year seem so much nicer,
Murraycod hows the CROP " growing a few big eggies ready for the big IVF can't wait to hear of your progress and fingers crossed your moving threads next mnth, (me too I hope )
well AFM days keep going by not too much longer till I test but I will not test early I would rather wait till day 29 at least give the witch a chance to appear before I get my hopes up ( been feeling a bit nauseas and headaches but keep telling myself your body is tricking you again don't listen to it )
Keep positive everyone god reawards those who wait and beleive it will happen again !
Carrie -Just read your story. I cant imagine, sometimes life is so cruel and hits us in a harshest way...My heart goes with your loss...I hope things get better for you and you get a much deserved BFP, a healthy bub in your hand. I got to know about my loss in 12th week, when i had bleeding, u/s confirmed the heartbreaking news of m/c....i am still in tears that why my first preg ended in this way and took away all my innocence and left me with tears and sorrows. None in friends know about this loss of mine. My very close girlfriend is pregnant, she told the whole world that she is 13 weeks pregnant except me - she told me that her period is 4 days late and she is waiting to go to doc...how sad is this...well, leave all this....I am just praying to Holy God that 2010 brings Happiness and joy and a healthy bub in our lives...May our TTC to Pregnancy journey is joyable one.
Ferrals - Good that doc said everything is fine..a Fresh start once again for you. all the best.
Someone has got a new treadmill...someone knows who i am referring too.....that is awesome..
T-hopes - I dont know about any obs here in my suburb as we have moved recently to eastern suburbs...where do you live? but with google, i got to know about this search engine -http://healthengine.com.au/
you can type postcode and type of specialist looking for, it gives you results, i am relying on them. or you can check the forums in belly for obs/ hospitals services...
Craftymummy - twins in the house, hope those +ve prego vibes soon reaches you and get the BFP quickly.
Mummyof4 - I know the frustration....i am with you, big hugs from me. dont blame yourself, i know its hard to forget, but positive side is we will have a beatiful son/ daughter in our arms soon.
Matthew'sMum - How are you? you are right, we sometimes cant take decisions instantly in a sensitive situation and its hard to control emotions & act maturely..
And a big hello to everyone who are patiently waiting to test /2ww and those waiting to big "O" day..all the best
with me - in short
"O" day - 26 Dec
first Preg test - done 8DPO - ofcourse BFN
2ns test - 11 DPO - yet another BFN
AF due on 9th Jan - Result =
Quick quest - which test is the lucky test ladies? I am happy to invest in that and get BFP
Carrie glad you found the strength to join us mad women on here ( speaking of myself anyways ! )
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