Mathewsmum-i talk about abbi in a positive way around the boys i include her in a lot of our day to day things like at xmas we brought a glass ball with an angel in it and abbi's name engraved on it so she was with us i also hung her little booties on the tree and when we go out if we see roses we buy one and put it with her ashes the boys are not afraid to mention her name they ask me all the time how old would abbi be now mum and would she be sitting up yet ect i keep my saddness to myself and my hubby and when we see serverely disabled children i tell the boys if abbi were here she would be like that or worse and i say where she is now she is healthy and normal and has no pain they also have abbi's foot prints as their wallpaper on there mobile phones so i think they are doing great i wish i was.
Last edited by Inanna; January 13th, 2010 at 03:02 PM.
Bookmarks