Matthew's mum: I'm sure your a wonderful mother, your dedication to remembering and doing personals to everyone here says a lot about your concern for others. Maybe get a second opinion? Maybe third time lucky? Maybe write a letter for Matthew, you never know you might feel an answer for yourself. I'm sorry it was upsetting, I hope you feel better soon.

Sunbeam: Enjoy your weekend! Hope you get good news soon.

TTCALC: Arrrghhhhh how annoying is this waiting! Hopefully our bodies will figure out what they're doing soon, it would be awesome to get our cycles back at the same time!

HubbaBubba: I know you feel with the watching ppl with kids, I'm still glaring at pregnant women, lol. There seems to be a loooot of 14/15yr olds who are pregnant at the moment in this town, they're really not my favourite people right now. I hope you get a sticky bubba soon!

Chickybabe: Hooray for trying again! I know it's really scary though, good luck with the journey!

craftymummy: Good luck with O and with being quiet, lol!

Thopes: Crap, that's not the best news. Really hope it's just too early, don't lose hope yet, nothing can really be certain in pregnancy. Just hold on.
As for melbs, not sure where we'll be living! We used to live in Kensington, and I like that area, but a house close to the city is way out of our price range, and I'd really really like a house (so ready to nest, lol) so I think we'll go further out, but close to a train line, maybe northcote?

SPF: Thanks for your advice, it helps to be reminded sometimes that it is just one day at a time

AFM major cramping last night! Was so certain that today would be the day, but alas, nope. There was a very slight possibility that I was preg, I had a few symptoms and DH and I did have a bit of an oops (we were using condoms, cos we were certain that we wanted to have 1 cycle before trying). So I POAS, and got BFN, which is GOOD, cos it means that there is no HCG in my system and that preg symptoms are probably just AF symptoms, and that everything is probably going exactly as it should, just at it's own pace. And I got some of the major zit zapping stuff, so I feel very proactive, lol. Thanks everyone for their responses, it really helped. You all rock