crafty - she said that my lining probably wanst all coming out each cycle so even if the sperm does meet the egg, if would probably just attach to this crappy old black stuff and come away. makes total sense. and if we did get a BFP, her thoughts are that we would prob lose again as the baby wouldnt implant properly nor attach. she reckons that she can fix my ccyle and get me to have a good bleed to gt the linming all nice and fluffy. she said she thinks i will be an easy case to fix but my body has been thru a lot and i need to allow it and her time to fix! I hope she is right!!! hope this helps - let me know if you would like to know anymore xx