So i tested again this morning and i got a bfn with an ebay cheapie and a forelife, so either they are not good tests, im out on my dpo or im just not utd!
My boobs hurt really bad, and i have a tad queasy feeling in my throat and im tired.
and i would have been 10 weeks 2 days pregnant today if i didnt have that stoopid mc!!!!
Hey Anila, how many DPO are you? Could still be too early. I was 4w5d before I showed pos last time.
Funny, I was doing calcs in my head last night about how far I would have been now too. It got too depressing so I gave up. This time I'm not even looking at what would be an EDD.
hey Smallfryplus, today i am cd 29 11-12 dpo.
Im so worried that i may be out on my o, and if that is the case then we didnt bd enough, i got o pain on cd 17, 18 and 19. I had small small ewcm on cd 18, i usually o cd19, we bd on cd 10,13,15, 17, 18, 27.
Then a week later i have that pop and falling feeling in my tummy.
This is just too hard, this journey was hard enough with out having a mc, now it just seams even harder.
Im so glad i have u guys, thanks.
I have been trying to conceive for 3 years. There was one ectopic preg and multiple times of chemical pregnancies. I almost want to give up. Yesterday I tested positive and today it becomes faint line (now should be in week 4 + 5 days). So I think I got a chemical preg again. I just can feel it coming because I lost the symptom at cycle 28th day when I felt a short and sharp pain. No blood, nothing. Just lost the symptoms after that... now just waiting the period to come... I did a blood test yesterday as instructed by GP, I'd only know the results tmr...
I just arrive to Sydney not long ago and I need help! Can someone recommend good fertility specialists (better to be female) who are patient? I hope it will be near Chatswood... I always go to Clinics but I think I need a specialist to tell me what's going on in my body....
Hi Tina- sorry you are back here, that must make it more painful but I hope you find the support you need, I know I did and still do.
Smallfryplus- yes we are all TWW buddies so lots of and for all of us. I'm planning to do a test on sunday even though it will be early, just can't wait.
I chart and now use OPKs too. I wish I'd used them before because I can now see a few months where we were days out because I expected to o heaps earlier than it happened. My temps are pretty obvious and there is always a very distinct rise after I o. I've found I do need to use the OPKs for several days (in my case cd15 to cd25) so i use the cheap ones off the net. The only prob is that you have to use them each day because they don't get more and more positive, it's such a small window because one day its negative and then I get 2 days of positive. Makes things much easier for me though given that I'm not dtd at frequent times.
Sunbeam! We're buddies!!! YAY someone to obsess with!!!
I have only 1 pregnancy test in the house and I have not ordered more off the net so Im "TRYING" to hold out. I seem to get spotting or lightly discoloured CM at 11DPO so i need some nerves of steel.
Having a look at your chart, and it really could go either way. The thing that will differentiate between day 12 and day14 as O day is the difference between the temps on day 8 and 14, cause day 14 is the only one that's close to any other temp in the 6 prior. But then the spike on day 13 throws things out too, and would suggest O on day 12. If you look at day 14 as not being higher than the previous 6 readings, then I would atually say that O is day 15, cause the next three (although there's only two) readings are higher However, you still got positive opk's which wouldn't happen if you had already o'd, plus the ovulation pain....hmmm.......( i hope this makes some kind of sense to you?!?!?!)
my verdict: I would say you o'd between day 14 and day 15 due to incorporating the other factors of opk, pain and mucus. The good thing is you bd on each day so chances are you caught it! Go with your initial feelings of when you o'd. I reckon you're about right.
i think i may have confused you even more??? This isn't a perfect science, but your chart looks pretty promising to me.
Really hoping for a bfp for you soon. Very exciting!!
Can I ask why this would be the last month of charting?
Im so sick of random people asking if im pregnant yet! Like we just arent trying hard enough.
I went to the newsagents this morning to get a few pregnancy magazines to check out the fashions for work and the ladies behind the counter almost screamed as she asked if i was expecting. Then she continued to tell me how both her children were by accident. Grrrrr
Im not sure why people who arent even my friends or family think i would tell them anyway.
Sorry about the winge.
Hope everyone is having a good day today. all round.
I just need a break from the obsession. IF im not pregnant this month, Ill be stopping temping but Ill still be doing opk's.
I dont know how well it will go but i think the dissapointment every month is getting much too hard for me to bear..so a break sounded like the right thing to do...I am considering maybe charting until my FF account runs out if not pg before hand..
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G'day Maddison! I love seeing your name, it gives me hope (for those who missed that post, Madison is what we are calling our first daughter..with 1-D though) I have got no symptoms, I am trying to not think about any of it too much this time. I am only 6dpo so wouldnt expect to be feeling much for a while yet.
When I did fall pregnant I felt VERY emotional at 10DPO just down in the dumps but i had no reason to feel that way, 11dpo I was really thirsty, and peeing alot...most likely because i was drinking alot..I was wanting a nap before work (i work evenings) and hungry on demand, like I had to eat RIGHT NOW! 12DPO cant remember, apart from being tired... 13DPO my fave fareyform bra that fits like a glove felt like it was strangling me..I tested that afternoon...not because of my symptoms but because FF said "you can take a test! You are past your luteal phase!" and sure enough it was a bfp
I didnt get any sickness whatsoever..maybe verrrry slight nausea for like 5 mins here and there, but mainly feeling tired and wiped out and hungry...
HTH?
I havent ordered more tests off the net like I normally do for this month. I normally get them from mums the one.com I havent had a bfp off them yet to tell you whether store brought is better or not...the OPK's seem to be better than store brought? stronger lines, faster result..
I have ONE first response test here and I will order tests on friday..that way they'll come by monday 10DPO and it wont be too early by tuesday 11dpo...well..i hope anyway..I just dont want to waste money on them..but i know ill be buying tests anyway and better buy them off the net being cheaper and getting more for my money..
Hi cat- sorry I missed your post too maybe it was moderated before it was posted. Sorry to hear of your losses. I'm not in Sydney either so I can't help with fertility clinic info. I hope you find the support and information you need, these women are awesome.
maddison- yes I'm totally obsessing over every twinge in my body. I'm only 6dpo but I have abdomen aches and pokes, a sore right bb and tiredness. Sort of odd, but signs I got with both last pgs too is a killer pain between my shoulders and clumsiness (dropping things, walking into doors etc.) anyone else get these?
I get my hpts online. You can get them from a few sites and they detect HCG at 10miu which should give an earlier result. If you google early pg tests you'll find them not sure who has the best deal at the moment.
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