Cherished so sorry to hear about your loss, life can be so unfair at times. Sounds like you doctors are doing lots of checking, so I hope they can give you some answers (still doesn't make it any easier, I know).
Smallfryplus the naturopath had a look at my chart and thinks I ov'd over the weekend. Looks like i'm into the TWW!! Not going to get my hopes up though as it might take some time for my cycle to settle. Will see what happens.
Increased Temp sounds very positive!!!
Ferrals4, I'v been think about you all day, I pray you got some positive news.
For those who didn't have a good result this month stay strong .
oh cherished Im so sorry hunni. i didnt mean in it a blase , 'shrug it off' sense. please, i apologise if thats how it was recieved. i only wanted to remind you that you are strong, that i know you are strong and that you've just been hurt and each day will be different. you'll have shi!!y days and ok days. nobody expects you to pick yourself up and dust yourself off straight away, curl up in your ball, cry it out and rest, theres nothing wrong with that. again im SO sorry to have offended you.
I had this done when I was trying to conceive my son, We had some other test 1st but they couldn't find anything wrong so suggested i may have a blockage. I found it was a horrible procedure very very painful, I was an emotional mess after it (just my opinion diff for everyone). They didn't find anything wrong, and it didn't speed up our efforts in TTC either (as I had read it does in some cases).
When I had the procedure i had not been able to previously fall pregnant. I think if you are able to fall pregnant then that would indicate that your tubes a clear of any blockage, and you may not need the procedure, not 100% sure but this is my understanding.
There has been so much sadness in here this past week... I am so sorry my loves at the individual/collective pain that is being experienced...
Okay: Coco: You have been TTC for 20 months with 1 pregnancy resulting in loss. It is my opinion it's time for some investigation. Have you seen a gynae? Where do you live? You are young, you are using opk's and charting and it's not happening. I think you need to up the ante a little. Hysteroscopy and a dye insertion will show any blockages. Also have you had a CD21 test? This is a progesterone level that is done 7 days post ovulation. The level is looked at to show weather a "good" ovulation has occured. A LP should be no less than 12 days - sometimes spotting prior to your period also shows an hormonal difficulty. I strongly urge you to get this investigated. A trip to your gp for a referral if you are not seeing a gynae already. Clomid is often given to iron out a LP defect/low hormonal levels.
Chrerished: It is false information that any other blood work needs to be ordered by a specialist. I suggest you see if you can see another doctor or a gynae - I see you are on the Sunny coast. I can help you with some names if you would like... I understand the feelings you are going through. It's just too hard at the moment isn't it? Take time to grieve your little one - and know that feelings come and go and you may not feel like this in time to come. I am sending you all my love and support darling Mama. You have been through so much and it's just sad...
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Thank you so so much. I just had a little cry reading that because I know it's the truth I have an appointment with a gynae in Newcastle on 22nd June, Denise Nessbitt..
I had a CD21 test done (might have been cd22 as 21 was sunday) and my prog was 47 and estrodoil was 771.
In your opinion do you think that DH's swimmer test should be forwarded to the gynae aswell?
Thanks for giving me a nudge
BTW...Isnt this just rich!?
Skanky Playboy Bunny's can easily fall pregnant without trying and no doubt she will go through her pregnancy with NO probs, and us ladies here who depserately want babies with men we love and we have all the trouble in the world getting pregnant and when we do, look what happens to us!
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Sunny my little ray of sunshine... You could never be the cause of a cloudy day.... I was not offended at all??? in fact I am not sure what you are talking about... All I feel is support from you xoxoxo
Flowerchild, how wonderful you are to gently prompt us to stand up and take some action. I would love some names of dr's on the sunny coast or a gyno I could see... The ob I saw in March was James Orford (he was absolutely lovely!) I had an appointment with him again... but sadly wont be keeping that! I figure a gyno would be the person to see about this so please let me know who you recommend.
He is a lovely man cherished and was actually with me when I birthed my Angel Son...
He is an obstetrician/gynae as are all the obs on the coast. So, you could continue your appointment with him. He is also in partnership with another 2 gynae/obs with a practice down the road from his surgery called "fertility solutions". This is handy if you need further help. I strongly (forcefully even ) urge you to keep your appointment with him. All the speialists can take weeks (even months at times) for gynae appontments and he really has a great reputation and is kind. Just be direct and press for some investigations.
I've been home for hours not sure what to say our worst fears have happened we are carrier's of SMITH LEMLI OPITZ SYNDROME gene so we have a 1 in 4 chance every time we concieve that the baby will be affected, Abbi had a servere case which the geneticist said means our genes have a strong fault so any baby affected will be as badly affected as abbi so where do we go from hear they have sent abbi's liver samples to australias top geneticist in Adelaide to isolate the exact gene that takes 4 weeks then if they can't find it they are looking into DNA sequencing to get the right gene which take 8 to 12 weeks so when we get pregnant again they can test for it at 11-12 weeks they told us to not try so hard to get pregnant for 3 months to give them time to find it but if we do happen to get pregnant they will try to rush the test's for us and as soon as i'm pregnant i will have to be under the care of the fetal medicine unit and the professor at RNS i also carry the gene for bicuspid aortic valve which my 2nd son has and so did abbi which is not life threating on it's own,I was so hopeful it would be ok now i can't relax until i get past the cvs test's that's 3 month's of being pregnant and not knowing if i will be able to keep the baby as if waiting to get pregnant isn't bad enough now this i don't know if i should cry or not and i want to thank you all for thinking of me today
Coco-I had the test where they flush your tubes its called a Hysterosalpingogram or HSG (much easier to say). I'd had one pregnancy already so they don't have to suspect completely blocked tubes to do it. I found it was uncomfortable but not unbearable. It hurts a little as they go in through your cervix and it feels a bit yuck as the fluid runs out after but the whole think is over in around half hour. Luckily my tubes were fine but it did show a small polyp that had not previously been detected which may have been interfering with proper fertilization or implantation. (They then offered me surgery to remove it but a later ultrasound showed it had disappeared by itself!!!) Even if there is no blockage there is some thought that any loose debris in your tubes will be washed out and may make it easier to conceive after. Hope that helps.
Ferrlas I am so sorry about your news, we were all hoping for positive things for you. Is there some support especially for people going through this? It is not something I have any knowledge of so I can't advise or really appreciate what you must be feeling . Thinking of you and here for you
Ferrals: Im so sorry to hear that. Its great that you now know but I really hope you're ok and the next little miracle is unaffected xxxx
Sunbeam: Thank you so much for that. Ill write it down and ask the gynae when I see her pending not being pregnant next cycle. Im going to plan it all and maybe ill get pregnant and all the organising will be for nothing
Thanks again, anyone else who has had it if you can let me know of your experiences that would be great! Anyone from newcastle who has had it, that would be even better!
Ferrals honey I am sorry... That is a really hard pill to swallow and I feel thankful that you at least have a plan in place. I know 1 in 4 are really narrow odds - and that must really feel confronting. What do you think you will do with regard to TTC? Do you think you will continue and hope for the best or wait? I am imagining you are in two minds - as would I be...
Thankyou for sharing with us - and know you have much loving support in all of us here...
I am not sure if it was coco or cherished. But a HSG is done in the doctors surgery - I didn't find it pleasant but certainly not a big issue. It was uncomfortable but realitively quick.
feeling absolutely exhausted and homely. getting cramping too. BFN today. RB is obviously flying to my house and is ignoring ALL speed limits as we speak.........WITCH!!!!!!
Ferrals I havent' been such a good friend lately.... I have not offered you any comfort and have been completely self absorbed I can only imagine how you are are feeling right now *sigh* I am sure though that we are both sitting down tonight wondering what to do with out ttc journey
Flowerchild It's always nice to hear other people speak so highly of James.... Both dh and I really like him.... Thanks for the info on the fertility clinic, I called them at 4:20 but they close at 4pm, dh is going to call them in the morning. I asked dh to call James yesterday to cancell my appointment on June 22nd! SO if we can see him at the fertilily clinic we will otherwise we will see if my appointment has been filled yet. Thanks again for your help.
coco I can't believe I have to go to work tomorrow and pretend everything is ok too
Smallfryplus, Zacsmum, Sunny, Sunbeam, Maddison, erybery, dellydoo, Anila, greenslw & everyone else who has offered me support thank you, thank you, thank you
Tina & Jane... I don't think I even welcomed you or said hello I was too busy feeling sorry for myself... Sunny can I borrow one of your violins? I am sorry for your losses and I hope you get your BFP soon and have a sticky one xoxox
Coco - I had the Hys thing done at the same time as having a laproscopy to remove endometriosis so I was fully asleep under anesthetic in a hosp so I don't remember what it felt like. Sorry I can't help you more! Im glad you are seeing a gyno hopefully they can give you more answers xox
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I am so sorry my loves at the individual/collective pain that is being experienced... 
I understand the feelings you are going through. It's just too hard at the moment isn't it? 
I have an appointment with a gynae in Newcastle on 22nd June, Denise Nessbitt..
) urge you to keep your appointment with him. All the speialists can take weeks (even months at times) for gynae appontments and he really has a great reputation and is kind. Just be direct and press for some investigations. 
I was too busy feeling sorry for myself... Sunny can I borrow one of your violins? 
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